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writes:Hi,My boyfriend is happy with my chest size but I'm not. I'm 23 yrs old and feel that my chest size is small annot proportion with my body. I have been thinking of having breast augumentation for 3.5 yrs now, since I thought maybe over time will increase naturally but they haven't. Im not happy with my size, but my boyfriend is. He tells me that I dont needto cange my body, but he works out and is sculpting himself, and I am not telling him no that he shouldnt be doing that yet he is saying that to me out my chest. What' ur opinion? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007): He loves you for you are and loves your size and that is great...Going to the gym and working out is completely differnt then getting surgery(which is what your breasts are gonna get). You can get breast perkier but strengthing your arm muscles and working out size though will not. I say stay aaway from surgery brest surgey is no fun and can lead to big mistakes risking your health.
Even in breast cancer paients who get some filling back can go wrong. This woman I knew had it and the scar was horrible and was causing to discomfort she went back but they did no better job. She finally went to searching around for a high great person to redo it and make the scar less visable after a year of reserch she found someone great and finally turned out witha happy result but took much agony to get there. You boyfriend loves you the way you are be glad sometimes those are hard to find.
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reader, kirstylouise  +, writes (22 May 2007):
hi, its a shame that you can't feel 100% good about your body - however nobody does.
There is a big difference between your b/f going to the gym and you getting artificial bags stuck to your chest. Its incredably sweet that your b/f likes you just the way you are however I do believe that sometimes it doesn't mean jack unless you can feel the same way about yourself. I desperately want a boob job as by boobs are hurendious! however i could never consider this to be an opition as of the lifestyle choices I have made (currently training to be a boxer) and thats ok because its not the end of the world, if you are happy with your appearence on the whole but occasionally think oh yeah i wish my boobs were a little bigger then don't do it however if this is something that plays on your mind all the time and effects your day to day living standard then yes it sounds like it may be the right choice for you, im sure your b'f will love you no matter what!
Have you tried exercises and/or pills? Im not completely up to date on the information but ive heard some people have been getting good results from pills ask your GP if you are unsure of anything.
Please do-not rush into anything, shop around and make sure you get plenty of information don't be afraid to ask questions.
Take Care
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): I would suggest you think about the breast op for a good amount of time, a year maybe? If after a year you still want one, then go for it! I've always thought if someone thinks about something for a long enough time then they probably won't regret their decision.
It's nice your boyfriend likes you the way you are, but that shouldn't necessarily be enough to stop you from doing it anyway. All the best with whatever you decide to do.
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reader, Merchant +, writes (22 May 2007):
He is right. The fact is that most men like women who like themselves not women who are neurotic. Small boobs, frankly are nicer and less likely to go south that big ones. They also don't weigh you down and in my experience are far more sensitive than larger wobblers.
Just luxuriate in your relationship, and be happy with what you have got.
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