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female
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30-35,
*arowin
writes: heyive just split up with my long term boyfriend and i am missing him so much. He has other pictures of girls on his msn picture and hes now blocked me. But i need ot get over him all i can think about is how much im gunna miss him. Miss his hugs and his kisses and just everything about him. Its makin me really unstable and ill. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): hay, first of all you dumped him! so there had to be a good reason for you to do that, and thats what you need to concentrate on whenever you feel like you miss him or want him back.Your still emotionally connected to this guy and thats ok - you cared about him. But don't confuse emotions of stability and habbit for love. Are you really missing him as a person or are you missing someone to care for and who cared for you, missing the closeness and the hugs and kisses because if there the things your missing (and its normal to) then your going to be fine because one day when your ready your going to meet someone and you'll have all those things again you just need to give yourself sometime to get used to being on your own again.Make sure you don't rush into anything as i feel that after a relationship its good for you to take sometime out and to find your feet and get used to being a happy single young woman. remember people should only be in your life because you want them there and not because you need them.As for him blooking you on his msn - can you blame him you dumped him! hes prob just trying to get over you and not having you accessable is one way for him to start that process you need to leave him be! once he's had time to come to terms with what has happened then maybe you can work on being friends againI hope this helps a little.Take Care
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female
reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Hey Huni Well ive nearly split up with my bf these last few weeks turned out we havnt tho were trying really hard to sort things n i was gettin the same thorts in my head as u n thinkin how much ide miss him. break ups are very hard but ya no what avoid being alone DONT put on the love songs get ya hair done or something and keep busy dnt txt or talk to him jus dnt see him for a few weeks and trust me itll get alot easier thats the main one you jus gota stay away from him. Remember he broke your heart now its time to move on u cant live in the past or ull be down forever ya jus gota say f**** him i dont need him to ur self and ull b fine i promise remember thousands n thousands of relationships dnt work out but ppl do get over them i no it sucks in the mean time but jus try deal with it the best way u can. good luck x
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