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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each oth...

Is this guy just a user?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - When dating a guy for 2years he is laying in bed with me present girl freind a ex girlfreind calls while we are in bed making love.She tells my guy she loves him and he responds back and tells her he loves her to. Then hang up the phone and tells ...

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...

How do I ask my boyfriend is he was/is a ladykiller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My brothers friend and i have recently began a relationship after a few months of fwb. We really like each other and have talked about moving in together in march after my lease is up on my own flat. My brother however has put serious doubt in...

Texting him for 4 months. Then he suggested FWB. Then ignored me totally. Am I right to be concerned by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested ...

We meet up, have sex and then he doesn't call! Whats it all about?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I am in a dilemma here. I met a guy in September at a party, both drunk. We kissed and talked. I bumped into him at a bar 2 weeks later and we just went straight home and jumped into bed. 3 weeks later we meet again at a party and home again. We ...

I'm in love with two people and I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I've been having a sexual relationship with a close family friend for almost a year now. We treat eachother like cousins and have done for years. We spend every new year and birthday celebrations together. The thing is this family friend is a guy. ...

Was it wrong to send a message, instead of seeing him or calling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I feel terrible... I've known this guy for about four months, two of which we've been dating. He was really sweet to me, I'm still a virgin (and almost 21 y/o) and he was so nice and patient. We did some stuf, but he would never push me and made ...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

FWB offends me. Is FWB just a cheap way to get easy sex instead of paying a sex worker? Does FWB stand for anything else other than sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - FWB I don't really like this game because what if the other person start to have feelings? To me it seems to be basically about money. Where does one draw the line and say this is not what I want? I really think FWB is a trade off for free sex. I c...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

He says he doesn't know if we can be more than FWB!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - For about a few weeks now, ive had sexual relations with a guy i work with. He is the most attractive guy ive ever been with, and has a beautiful personality. Im completely taken by him, i love his smile, his eyes, his hugs, etc...i wake up excited ...

I feel like he's using me for oral sex and doesn't value our friendship anymore, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys, hoping you will be able to shed a little light on this situation I'm in. There's this guy I've known for awhile, and before we became friends we fooled around (oral sex) over the summer. After this however, we became close friends. There ...

I want more then just "friends with benefits"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy over the past 11 weeks at university, who happens also to be my flatmate. After breaking up for the holidays, it came up in conversation that I liked him and was interested in more, but he made it clear he wanted to stay as ...

Will my friends ever accept us as a couple and stop the snide remarks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - Just over a year ago I was in an 'open' relationship with my now ex-girlfriend. We both saw whoever we wanted to no questions asked. It worked for about 2 years Last December I started seeing a girl who was a friend of both of ours and our group of...

I agreed to FWB, but now I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - 10 months ago my friend gave her friend from college my number, we got talking and arranged to meet up (me, him, my friend and her boyfriend) and go on a day out. My friend told me that he liked me however I didn't feel the same and somehow we ...

FWB occasionally over si years .What did I do to turn him off so fast? And why build up expectations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

16 December 2012 (F) - I have a guy who was a friend for a while and became a fwb about 6 years ago. We only would see eachother when not in relationships. I was fine and he was fine and although we have always been attracted to each other, our jobs are different an...

How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits. Heres the short version. I Met a guy december last year, foundnout gis nane and added him on fb. I basically told him straight out i only wanted sex and he did to. Well we.flirted (quite ...

Is he attracted to me or is it just that I'm 'available' to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

12 December 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy (A) on and off for 2 years. He told me 6 months ago that, he's not attracted me and he doesn't want to get close to me. We all have the same friends so we interact every now and again. Two years ago I met him (A) and ...

I love my girlfriend, don't want to break-up, but she doesn't make me laugh. And there is another woman in the wings. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

11 December 2012 (M) - I have a really great girlfriend. She's beautiful and sweet and kind and I love her. When I first met her I was completely overwhelmed by her and fell in love. We have been together since March. I have a daughter from a previous relationship, and I ...

FWB: I've been in one before. But why is my new FWB guy so into cuddling afterwards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, So lately i've been in a friends with benefits sort of situation. I know this sounds really weird but I met this guy online and we had talked about getting together for a couple months now... well we finally we made time and we have...

Best Friends that have turned into something else, without willingness to commit..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

11 December 2012 (M) - Sorry this is somewhat lengthy, but I am in desperate need of good advice so I want you to know as much as possible. Thanks in advance!! My best friend and I have been basically dating for 7 months. As in we had sex regularly, went on dates, h...

My FWB says that he's not cheating on his girlfriend with me because apparently I'm not a service , I'm just a girl who he likes in lust

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - I am 19 years of age and now is in an affair with a man who is 29 who has a girlfriend he has been dating for 8 years. He says shes his best friend, with her he has a so called life , clean clothes to wear. But he is unsure if he wants/or is going ...

Anxious about first time sex with my B/f. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Me and my bf are talking about having sex, we discussed it and I want to be the 'passive' one of the two, if you get me, but I have seen him naked and I am worried because he is really big! I haven't had sex before and he said it hurts the first ...

Is he genuine? Every time he's 'going to leave her' something comes up. How do get more strength to cope with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - First of all I know im an idiot for getting myself in this situation and I do regret it more than you could know which is why I could do with some advice. I had feelings for a guy that I've known for a year and stupidly let him kiss me a few mo...

Am I being used? I want more than to just be his FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - So there's this guy I've known since high school. We are the same age. Both came out of really bad relationships. We are friends. I went over to his house one day we ended up doing things. Then afterwards, he says "I'm not sure what this means ...

My "no strings attacked" sex partner wants to take our relationship out of the bedroom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F) - hi there i met my guy on line as nsa buddy but he wants us to take our relationship as he calls it out of the bedroonm. i been seening him 6months now im unsure to take this step as i not sure if i want a relationship again whats more is i have a ...

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they ...

Can FWB relationships work and become something else later on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I live with a friend of mine who I have know for about 15 years, we met at school and have always been good friends. We hung out in the same group and when we were at college became closer. When I broke up with my ex I needed help with the rent and ...

I'm nervous about doing sexual things with a more experienced guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a few months and we've recently told each other we like each other. We were playing the question game and he asked me if i'd like to try being friends with benefits, however: - i've never had a boyfriend - i'v...

I know I can't have my cake and eat it too but I'm confused and not sure what is the right thing to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

3 December 2012 (M) - Where should I start, ok ill start here, 2 years ago I ended a 3 year relaxationship with a girl that i never had a connection with other than sex lol and we had nothing in common, I was miserable and she didn't love me, but we had awesome sex and ...

I'm in love with my FWB and cant stand him sleeping with other women, how do I end this once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - Hi i have been having sex with a man who is 36 and im 26 on and off for 2 years now. its been more friends with benefits than anything else, then i found out he had slept with someone else when we had agreed not to sleep with anyone else. stupidly i ...

What's best? My friends say "give him the shove" but I have a major crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) - A lad and I who i work with having been seeing each other for a few weeks, just sex nothing serious. I fancied him from the second i met him ( 7 months ago ) but he was with his ex. We flirted a lot till i found out he had a girlfriend f...