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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Help! My boss thinks I have a crush on him. How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Help! My boss thinks I have a crush/ i'm in love with him. I've been working with this guy for a little over a year, he's quite reserved and a bit shy with other people, he can be even rude sometimes, but with our team he's quite funny and niceish....

Will his friend be thinking I am an absolute idiot to still stay with him? I think my husband took another girl's number while away with the army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Hey. I need to know if I'm being silly or not. Last month my husband went away abroad with the army to malta and while he was there got girls numbers etc to be honest Anyway he wants us to go out with a guy and his gf, the guy we are meeting wen...

I don't love him, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3150 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone my own age for about six months now. For me, this is brand new. I never date for very long, so the fact I've made it this far is astonishing. This person, we'll call him Blue Eyes, I met him through my mother. She met him, ...

I'm in love with a straight married friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3150 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I am married to a man. I have recently fallen in love with a female friend. She is married, straight, and of course completely off limits. But it hurts my heart. I haven't felt like this since I was a teenager. It's silly. I am s...

I don't trust one of my new roommates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I just rented a room in an apartment in the city I just moved to. I have three roommates, I didn't know them beforehand. But I love my new place and for the most part get along great with my roomies. I've developed a friendship with two of them whom ...

Does he really want a relationship, eventually? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I hope someone can help I fell out badly with someone I became close to Wasn't a relationship but was on its way there but then because of how it ended we ended up not talking for 2 years Then he gets in touch and messages sporadically but not...

I try to love my friend's child but it's just so hard! He's incredibly rude and I hate spending time with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I'm not sure how to express myself on this one or even what my exact question is or even if I HAVE a question.... all I know is that I feel really bad about this. My friend and I have known each other for over 10 years now. Her son has just tur...

Should I marry him, considering that I have major trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and caring ...

Did I jump the gun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - So I have worked with this girl for about 2 years now and well we get on well and I do fancy her but have not let myself fully like her . She is very flirty physically and emotionally I know she can be with another lad although she says she seems ...

I lost 42 pounds and gained confidence. Why are people now so mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm struggling at the moment as I'm quite a sensitive person and I've always wanted to be liked by everyone. This means that sometimes I give people more effort or time than they would give me and I take comments people make quite perso...

Depression and isolation has made me unable to make new friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - I'm in my early 20's. I've suffered from depression for over 4 years now and I also have generalized anxiety. Due to my mental illnesses it has caused me to isolate away from people and caused me to live in a bubble. For the last few years I hid ...

Why do people think pretty girls are dumb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3154 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - I do not consider myself "hot" i just know how to use make up. A lot of people who don't know me that well think I am really dumb but i am really a proud member of the "nerd herd" as they call us at my school. also why do people make fun of those...

How do I tell this woman I've had second thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3154 days ago

25 March 2016 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid Aunts and Uncles How is everyone? Okay, so here's my story... I am and always have been a bit of a cheeky chappy as my name says. I stop and talk to everyone. I've got time for everyone. It's just my nature and I think it...

How do I deal with these quite vicious older colleagues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi all, some advice on dealing with older colleagues that can be quite vicious. So I'm a newly qualified nurse who has recently got a job on a large ward with a lot of staff. I'm young at only 23 and I think a lot of people have sly digs at me b...

I want to date him, but told him I want to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3150 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Hi I've been single for over 4 years now had quite a few dates over that time but nothing came of them and then I stopped dating for over a year then I started talking to someone online and he asked me out, at first I said yes but because my ...

Why was he happy to text me during that time but had to avoid me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - I am in my early 40s and feeling a little confused. I had seen this guy in my local supermarket over a long period of time but he never seemed approachable but I felt I recognised him from my past (we used to go to the same pub but only knew ea...

I fell for my friend and now I feel like a fool

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

23 March 2016 (F) - Hi! I've always had a thing for this friend of mine but we both didn't act upon it. A couple of years later we got back in touch and decided we will go on a date whenever we are in the same city. It was supposed to be 'casual' because he isn't lo...

So there’s this girl... what would be the best move I can make?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - Hi, Ive never been one to post a heart filled question but I've got one thats been bothering for a while and I need some advice. So theres been this girl which I have been friends with the whole way through school she was one of my best friends ...

What activities that can bring me to meet new people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone.. im 25 single woman and i dont have social life. I used to have good circle of friends and have good social life back in college but im so in love and hangging out only with my ex boyfriend and now we broke up and i lose everything. ...

When people say they are ''not ready for a relationship'' is that just a line to discourage the other party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I was seeing a 25 y.o. woman over a month ago. She just lost her mother due to very complicated circumstances so she went through a very hard time. I took the 'not ready for a relationship' line as sincere. I didnt pursue but was open to go on mo...

How should I proceed without scaring her away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I've seemingly had feelings for my best friend since I met her when classes started in August. I say seemingly because I'm not sure if it was always feelings, or just the thrill of a meeting a new friend-my first college friend at that. We hung out ...

Still worried sick my ex might pursue one of my closest friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Not been with my ex boyfriend for about a year now (we were together over a year and a half) and my feelings are still there, his friends aren't the best and can be really horrible about me. When my ex boyfriend and I are by ourselves like in conve...

They don’t push their son to do anything, and it feels like such a waste! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I know the first response to this question might be that it's none of my business, but any helpful suggestions will be appreciated! I know a couple, both 40 ( and 8 years older than me) and they have a 10 year old son. It seems like they really...

My roommate caught me with my pants down - literally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (M) - I have two roommates. One male and the other female. Im close with both but am closer with my roommate who is a girl as we hangout more. We are strictly friends though as I assume she has no romantic feelings for me. I don't have feelings for her ...

Am I too boring to ever get a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (M) - Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance...

Why is gestures of affection so scary for me even though I want them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - I apologize in advance im typing this on my phone.Anyways I am not a touchy feely person.I am offered hugs by ny friends but theyre cold and I dont hug back.I dont enjoy having to worry about them hugging ne whenever they want.I try and wear long ...

Would it be a bad idea to text him? There was no formal goodbye to our relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I dated someone for a month, which ended two months ago. There was no formal goodbye. The communication just faded on his end. I never reached out again but I find myself thinking about him all the time. I was very attracted to him physical...

What should I do about this guy? Did I over-react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

17 March 2016 (M) - I recently started seeing a guy that i have known for quite a while (we attended the same school and live in the same town). He started chatting to me on Facebook after we had run into each other one night. He was always asking how i am, how wo...

I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. Is his behaviour part of his grieving or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I am a 21 year old female with a same age boyfriend, we both are in school and work part time jobs. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. With a 7 month break up 2 years ago. It was a very ugly breakup, which was very hard on both of us. We bot...

How do I deal with this girl whose nickname is my name?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Hello. I met a girl this year at varsity she uses her nickname as my name. See, my parents gave me this cool name from birth and she liked the name before we met. Its a very rare name and it has many meanings in science. The problem is the girl ...

I just want to know was it wrong of her to accuse me of being a liar? Shouldn't she trust me more as a "best friend?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Essentially, today one of our mutual friends asked to hang out while I was on some errands, so I told them I might meet them up if I get back in time. Well, I came back and turns out I had family visiting from another country, so had dinner aroun...

I want to ask him to hangout platonically without pressure of being a date. How do I go about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - There's this guy at my work who just got hired 3 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to each other and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...

My friend slept with my FWB gal. Do I have the right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - So I would like some opinions on this topic. This is an area I've never treaded into before and would like some perspectives. I've had a friends with benefits relationship for the past 5 months. We have a bit of a different style relationship than ...

Should I give up on him completely or talk to him? Or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - For about a month I've been talking to a guy I met through a dating app. As we got to know each other more, he said that he really liked and wanted to get to know me better and go on dates together. At first he said numerous times that he's ...

Should I ask her out again or should I take it as her not being interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I have the biggest crush on my coworker. We hardly see each other or have alone time at work. When we do work together I feel a lot of tension and I get nervous around her. I think she may sense that I like her because I do stare at her a lot. We...

He poked me in the side , is he into me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - Was travelling home in the bus. I saw a guy who has started being friendly with me. I am usually quiet and reserved but I always greet people in a friendly way. Today , as I was getting off at my stop, he poked me in the side of my belly and smiled. ...

Why did his mood and intentions change rapidly, and did he take my number in the first place if he really wasn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I met this guy over a year ago at a family function that at the time claimed he liked me and wanted to speak to me again. After taking my number, he never contacted me so I let it go and moved on. I met one of his relatives at a party and he asked...

My Boyfriend's ex just will not let go. Shall I attend the wedding we're both invited to, or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is taking me to a wedding and his ex, who is Very much clearly still in love with him, will be there. Should I go to this wedding? I don't want to end up causing a scene. FYI, my boyfriend has told her to move on and that they won...

How can I deal with the disruption of my BF's mate? The mate visits us almost every evening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years we have a son together. We are happy apart from the fact we get no time together because of his mate. My boyfriend finishes work. I have tea ready, then halfway through eating it his mate turns u...

The guy I like is giving mixed signals. Should I stop initiating contact all together? Am I being needy? Is this a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - We have been friends for an year. At first he was very flirty and would say how I was his type and he wanted a collage of my pictures on his birthday etc. I was 100% he was into me. Soon I developed feelings and confessed to him. He turned me down ...

I can't decide if he deserves a second chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for 2 months. I met him on Tinder and he is 4 years older than me. I'm 19 and he is 23. Towards the end of the 2 months, for 3 weeks we talked all day and all night. There are multiple days where we fell asleep on the ...

Am I right to feel offended my friend has been ignoring me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - I am so angry and very hurt with my so called "best friend". We have been friends 30+ years, since grade school. She is an intensely private person who hates phone calls, she NEVER calls, when she can be bothered to get back to me she texts. S...

I'm 20 years old and my overprotective parents are driving me crazy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm really needing some help right now. I'm 20 years old and still have to tell my parents where I'm going who I'm going with what I'm doing and if they think I'm lying they will check up on me and ask my friends if I'm there. I...

He said lets get to know each other but that was 2 months ago and no contact since!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - A guy I was quite close to got back in touch with me in January this year after we hadn't spoke for a couple of years I had helped him through a mutual friend to get a job and he obviously found out So anyway we started talking again etc but th...

I have never dated. How can I negotiate all these rules with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - I am I School freshman and I have never been on a date before. my friend off sort of try to set me up on date but my parents make it really hard because they won't let me go anywhere to hang out with a friend and my day drive or they approve ...

What support and advice can I give to my friend who has been trying to break up with her married lover? He does not want to let her go.

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - so my best friend is involved with this married man. she is very naive and had just spent the last 3 years healing from a very bad emotional abusive relationship. she joined the military as an officer and at her first duty station, she was paired w...

What is it called when a relationship breaks up and you turn into best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3168 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - I and my boyfriend has been together for 4 months. We have broken up last week. But now, we have remained as bestfriends. He said he will never have a girlfriend again officially and so do I. What do we call when relationships turn into best ...

I can't stand my boyfriend's rommate!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

11 March 2016 (F) - Hi, I do need help. I have a boyfriend who lives with 2 singles guys. Sometimes I go and spend a night there or most the time he comes here to my place (i live alone). last week he invited me to come over, when i was in the closet searching for a ja...

He tries to kiss me then says we should just remain friends??!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

10 March 2016 (F) - Someone anyone pleeeaaassee. I am confused as heck right now!! Okay so a couple months ago one of my friends admitted he has liked me almost our entire friendship and had tried to kiss me. But when i just sat there and didnt kiss him back he aske...

Does he just want to be friends? Am I reading him correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

10 March 2016 (F) - I am 40 and been on off texting a guy and he sent me this message yesterday. 'Not scared off thought being responsible adult maybe for the best. Will be able to text Saturday night if you wish, text away' I read that as just wants to be fr...