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*arahbeara23
writes:Someone anyone pleeeaaassee. I am confused as heck right now!!Okay so a couple months ago one of my friends admitted he has liked me almost our entire friendship and had tried to kiss me. But when i just sat there and didnt kiss him back he asked me why. I had told him i was surprised and didnt know hpw to respond. I didnt wanna do anything that would cause a rift in our friendship. I told him id be lying if i said i didnt like him too just he was someone to important for me to lose and didnt wanna risk it. He said he understood and we could try and take things extremely slow if things got to awkward one of us would say something. So things continued. We held hands we cuddled he even kissed my cheek. When i finally felt okay i wanna try this i wanna see where this can go he informed me that he didnt wanna do anything to lose me as a friend and said i was right. We were better off just staying friends. Upset as i was i still understood i couldnt be mad i wad the one who said that in the first place. A couple weeks almost a month went by and were hanging out again. He proceeds to try kissing me again. I so badly want to kiss him back but am hesitant for i know if i do i will fall for him more.. After he attempted to kiss me i tell him he confuses the crap out of me. He understood why and just tells me to deal with it... WHY?!?!?? Can someone please help me and explain to me what the heck is going on??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 March 2016):
 If you like him then try kissing him and see how it goes. Maybe he is scared off rejection as well. Go for it.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (10 March 2016):
Oh my. Just kiss the man already and see where this leads. Great friendships can certainly turn into great relationships.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 March 2016):
 He is testing your boundaries. Maybe hoping you will think he dearly cares for you and hop in bed with him in some "FWB" arrangement.
He already knows you like him, now he is just pushing buttons.
And he CLEARLY doesn't respect you, when you told him you wanted to not ruin a friendship with something uncertain, he agreed, but STILL went and kissed you again.
He isn't thinking about you, he is thinking about him.
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