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anonymous
writes:So I have worked with this girl for about 2 years now and well we get on well and I do fancy her but have not let myself fully like her . She is very flirty physically and emotionally I know she can be with another lad although she says she seems him as a brother. She has mentioned she often tells me the dreams she has about me sexual and none ( I know dreams dont mean anything though ) Anyway she has been in a relationship for 4 years and I jokingly said we should go out to this place to eat , to have her say she cant as she has got a chap.A week later she ended it with him , I am not a douche and thinking to try again but just been a mate to her ( not flirting as much either ) Anyway she said she is popping out with the lad ( who she sees as her brother ) now I know they have hung out as mates before but I have kind of chucked my toys out the pram and cut of communication via text with her now ( childish I know ) but simply because I dont want to be the lad who seems to get on well with a girl only to have them get with another lad if you know what I mean.. essentially protect myself . TBF I do have a laugh with her in general but did I do the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2016): Thanks for answering and yes tbf I have never thought too much of her as she was always like this ie attention seeking when she had a BF . I do not know what come over me .
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 March 2016):
 I think you did do the right thing.
She WAS being inappropriate while having a BF. The whole I had sexy dreams of you.. it's.. not appropriate to share.
And she IS a co-worker. So if it doesn't work out... it can get nasty and/or awkward.
The "lad" she likes to hang out with, might be someone she has had the SAME kind of conversations with, but it didn't go further so now they "pretend" to be "friends".
If you are looking to meet a girl to date, to be your GF - I'd look elsewhere.
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