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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:For about a month I've been talking to a guy I met through a dating app. As we got to know each other more, he said that he really liked and wanted to get to know me better and go on dates together. At first he said numerous times that he's looking for a serious relationship, then later he contradicts himself saying he's not ready. We also used to message every day but recently it has stopped. When I confronted him on the change when it first happened, he said it was him not me, and now it has happened again. He also hasn't tried to plan or initiate us meeting in person at all since we started speaking but claimed to want to do things together in the beginning. Now it's been a few days with no contact between each other. Should I give up on him completely or talk to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 March 2016):
 Look at his actions. His actions matches the "I'm not ready to date seriously". Not the "I want a serious relationship."
A guy who was looking for a serious relationship would put in the effort and "work" in getting to know you.
I'd move on. Talking about meeting up isn't MEETING up. It's like talking about flying but never getting on a plane.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 March 2016):
 He'll look for you if he's interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2016): Same thing happened to me! If the guy gives up you probably should too. The guy I was talking to was calling me babe and was wanting to see me every other day and then it suddenly stopped now two months later he tries to talks to me and drops the conversation and I'm not going to put in effort to a guy won't do the same. These things happen, best to just move on.
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