A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am married to a man. I have recently fallen in love with a female friend. She is married, straight, and of course completely off limits. But it hurts my heart. I haven't felt like this since I was a teenager. It's silly. I am so completely consumed by the desire to be close to her, to hold her, to be loved by her...and it's never going to happen.No advice needed, I know I just need to wait out these intrusive feelings. I just had to say it. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (29 March 2016):
Loving someone and not having them love you back is so tough, but remember you have a husband that loves you. Might be a good idea to put a bit of distance between you and this friend for a while so that you can let your feelings go.
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female
reader, Mayah Playah +, writes (28 March 2016):
I completely understand where you're coming from. I'm bisexual, so I know that the worst feeling in the world is falling in love with the dreaded straight girl that would never switch sides. Just remember that nothing in life is certain, and if things look bleak, there's always someone to come to.
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