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writes: I am in my early 40s and feeling a little confused.I had seen this guy in my local supermarket over a long period of time but he never seemed approachable but I felt I recognised him from my past (we used to go to the same pub but only knew each other to recognise each other and not to talk way back then). I made contact with him by leaving my number for him.We started texting on and off in a friendly way for about four weeks, two conversations of which became quite cheeky and carried on for about four hours each.However since this time I haven't seen him at all, he seems to have changed the times he goes in there to avoid me and when I mentioned it to him and said that I hoped contacting him had not scared him off he replied 'I have been in twice today'.I feel bad that he doesn't feel that he can be in the same place as me and to just say hello and wishing that I had not left a note for him now.I am just a bit confused as to why he was happy to text me during that time but had to avoid me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 March 2016):
 Yeah it seems he may not be overly interested. But hey you tried so try not to feel bad about it. Its great that you actually plucked up the courage to try and get to know him. Leave the ball in his court now. Best of luck, and well done for having the courage, men do love that.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 March 2016):
 I'd venture a guess... He is married or in a relationship.
While he had fun chatting up a storm with you he either got caught or caught himself before he crossed a line.
And I'd just wish him good luck, then block and delete. I mean what's the point? He isn't a friend, and he isn't interested in anything besides some texting....
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