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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

How can I forgive him for hurting me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Two months ago I started sleeping with a very good friend of mine. He had just broken up it his ex a few months before. Their relationship has always been on again off again for the past seven years. She is always trash talking about him to ...

I'm tired of being the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - Hi there everyone! I'm the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out, or when something upsets them. I'm only talked to when it's convenient for others. One specific case has been bothering me lately however.....

We were good friends, then we tried to date, now we're back to friends again and I don't want things to be awkward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4488 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - so me and this guy were good friends. we saw each other since about april but were never official. we fell out quite a bit and had a couple of big arguments so he basically said he thinks we should only be friends so it doesn't ruin our friendship ...

Am I being portrayed as the underdog?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (?) - I have known my friend for 5 years and our friendship has grown over years. I have trust issues opening up to people who get close to me, thou I am bubbly and the life and sole of the party and get on with everyone. Most of the time I am perceived ...

Should I just stay cool with my friend's situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Hey I need some help. I've never done this before but I've never been in this of type if situation. In the start of this year me and my ex broke up after 6 years but out of last fours years we were extremely unhappy even tho she says she was we ...

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a ...

I'm 13 and all my friends have a girlfriend except me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I a 13 year old guy. I want to know if it is wired that I don't have a girlfriend. All of my frIends do and I want to know If it is weird for me not to have one at this age. ...

Bro-codes or not? Sleeping with your friends ex girlfriend is suddenly okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I would love to hear peoples, especially guys, opinion on this. Should a guy date/sleep with his friends ex girlfriend? There's a guy I know, we recently met up to catch up and hear how things are. As we talked he started telling me this story, w...

It broke my heart and I cried my eyes out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - Okay I've never done this before and don't know where to even begin. The other night I did something stupid and went through my boyfriends msgs on facebook. We've been together for just over 5 weeks. We have just started renting a property in both ...

My husband disrespected me, should I go back to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - My husband is 4 years older than me, we got 3 kids together he's a great father and a loving husband, he's such a nice guy, meaning he's always out there somewhere letting other women cry on his shoulders whenever they in need for someone to talk ...

She saved my life, I want to be friends with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Hey so i was wondering how i should go about being friends with my ex seeing that she saved my life a year ago and i don't want to lose a friend like that. I know we are not ment to be together cause she moved across the country....

Fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do? She looks at me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - i am 13 year old girl and have fallen in love with my new german teacher ( she is female) i think she knows because in an asemberly all my frends said she was looking at me and when me and my freinds and i were sat out side and she kept lookin at us ...

He still hasn't stopped communicating with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her ...

Does she like me or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Okay so this girl is my friend in school. We'll refer to her as M. Well ima guy so anywho, im not very social however im very smart. and i dont think im too bad looking. maybe a 7 or 8 depending on who you are anywho so the whole school had a class ...

I screwed up majorly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - I screwed up majorly so i was invited to go with a group of 4 to hang at the state fair. great idea! i was thinking, yo, thus gives me a chance to hang with the girl i really like and i can drop hints about my feelings for her and she of she resp...

My boyfriend spends too much time helping another woman through her separation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi. I could really use your advice to help me determine if I am over reacting in this situation. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months so the relationship is very new. But I am having a problem with his attention on a f...

My ex fiance's sister is sending me cryptic messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a little confused about a certain situation and not sure how I should react. My ex-fiance's sister recently posted personally to me on fb that if I observe something (didn't say what) I will obtain great wisdom and also, that if I pray t...

Can't understand his reaction. Why did he make out nothing happened? We did cuddle. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hello Aunts. Recently Ive been spending a lot of time with one of my male friends, I guess at this point in my life he would be my best friend as I spend all of my free time with him. We both have feelings for another but until recently neith...

I am a good friend, but it just gets to me sometimes about how beautiful my friend is. how do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have been friends with my closest friend for a very long time, we grew up together and have been good friends for as long as I can remember. She is a beautiful person and I love her for being there whenever. But its just some days I let it get t...

Should I have my first homosexual encounter with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I am 23 years old,and I would say for the past 4 years I'v been bicuruious and I would really want to know how it is to be with a girl..I don't know if I can go all the way and have sex but I think just first base to see what I feel ...

My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwar...

Where do I go from here? I seem to have lost my "friendly colleagues" in the charity shop I helped.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I live in a fairly small area (an island) and worked in a charity shop which I enjoyed however for the second time one of the managers decided to open his own shop. The first manager and one of the workers opened their own shop. The second m...

Is it that he just does not like me? I feel neglected and hurt by his actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. we exchange numbers and texted time to time. then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me ...

What are your best tips to help me become flirty and sexy and successful when talking to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I am fairly good looking girl, (or so I have been told) but I rather nerdy, I think. I seem to genuinely be the girl that the guys like to be friends with. I am not looking for a relationship right now, just some casual fun. I have been ...

We broke up last week. With No Contact, his idea. But can I still text him to wish him good luck with exams? Or wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hey Me and my bf broke up last week. I met him after 2 days asking him to be friends he disagreed for any contact. I maintained the no contact rule and today is the sixth day. He has exams on monday therefore, can I text him to wish him good lu...

I was so mad to see her laughing and talking with somebody else, I punched a door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, Ok. So I have two problems. Hope you can help me... 1) See I'm a natural flirter, I don't mean to brag but I can make a girl smitten by me in a couple of seconds,not literally but you get the point. But when it comes to my crush. I...

He keeps ignoring me, makes excuses and then ignores me some more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have known this guy for around two years now. I’m going to refer to him as ‘B’. I was introduced to B through a friend, and from the moment we first met we hit it off. We started sleeping together and we would always get in contact when he came to ...

Everybody else gets invited! Why not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I just need some opinions please. I began dating this guy about a year ago. He has a shore home that he has access to anytime. He has been to the home several times last summer as well as this summer. He usually takes friends and also has a bo...

He seems to be putting himself where I am, but not in a creepy way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - i work in a relatively large company.there is one man that works within the realm of our large department that makes me curious about him. from the start he has asked co workers to get my personal status and how many kids i have, closed my office ...

I hope my behaviour lets him know I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4468 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - guys what would you think? would you think I am into you? and if not what should I do so that he thinks that? this guy and I live door to door in a students` hostel when he looks at me I often have to play with something (hair or accessory) and s...

Drunk I liked her, sober I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - hello i got drunk last night and was ment to hook up with a friend we liked each other and stuff but after i was pretty drunk i just didnt like her and didnt want her and now im sober im the same she just dosnt appeal to me any more now im thinking ...

We are friends but I have no idea what he thinks/feels about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Hi I am a mature single woman who has developed a crush on a guy very recently going through divorce he's around the same age as myself. I have known him about 5 months and noticed he's always looking my way my friend told me the other day he was ...

Is it too early to ask my friend turned lover how they feel about me after one week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Is it wrong to ask where a potential relationship is going after a week...? I've been hanging out with a girl for 6 months and she became what I consider to be my closest friend. Then a week ago we slept with each other after a night out. W...

Is my Gf a compulsive liar? Can I or should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been together with a girl for around 2 months now who I met online. A few months before we got together, she told me that she lived in Japan and was studying at a college to draw Japanese comics. She also told me that she grew up ...

It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone ...

Why would a girl get scared off and shy away from guy if he's never had a Gf before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - A question for you girls. If a girl ask a guy when was your last relationship and the guy replies he never had one why would the girl get scared off and not give that person a chance? Though he is very nice and friendly why do women shun away ...

I joined a badminton club to make friends, but none of them are interested in being my friend. I could use some help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Hello, This is my third semester at college. During my first semester, I was so busy I didn't have time to make friends. So to fix that, I joined a club for the 2nd semester, hoping I can find people to befriend. The club I joined was a badmin...

Should I try to move to her country to be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - She's a foreigner who's doing internship here, and will move back to her country next week. She's thinking about coming back here to work fulltime after finish her master, next year. We've known each other for maybe 2 months. We hanged out a lot...

I confided in my friend about my partner's cheating and now I feel like I crossed the line

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I'm in a situation, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me but we agreed to work stuff out. As it was a year later I found out he confessed everything we confronted the situation spoke to a counceller. But before we did all this I found myself ...

Ladies: What Keeps A Guy Out Your Friend Zone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - I've noticed that some guys sabotage their own luck with women, and may not know it. What they do to woo a woman, can sometimes end up friendzoning him instead. Outside physical attraction (which may be outside your control), what things can a guy...

Do I continue to put up with his behaviour? Or not? He's Flirting, but not to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - hey :) small question i hope, so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months. Urm.. hes never been much of a flirt but we've both had some trust issues however i had a reason not to trust him because he betrayed me before, not ...

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...

Is it possible to be with someone who has someone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

25 July 2012 (M) - Hi Pals,I want you to help me on this issues. I have a computer training school. I have many students both male and female that are learning computer. There was a girl in my school. The first day I set my eyes on her, I feel something deep for her. ...

Hits and misses but we never wind up together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy. for security purposes, let's pretend that his name is trey. we met back in january and became super awesome friends right from the start--texting each other pretty much nonstop, hanging out all the time...you g...

Do I tell friend what I seen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - i've just seen my mate flirting with her best friend's boyfriend what do i do?...

Would it be bad of me if I went away with my friend and told my girlfriend it was a work convention?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (M) - I took her away to Florida in June and we are booked to go back next summer. She is going away with her family for a week in August and i was invited but i cannot get the time off work. I was thinking about going away for a week in September with...

We broke up. How long will it take him to relent and text me back? He thinks I don't trust him any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - A month ago, my boy friend and I broke up beacuse of a fight we had. Got back as friends and were coming back into our relationship and two weeks ago I went to his place for a movie. I was lying on his chest him cuddling me and everythi...

Is this enough? So even though I think he likes me, does he really like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Hello aunts. Ive looked this question up but honestly it all just seems a little foolish. I have a friend that ive known since elementary school, he's eighteen and recently moved closer to me. I see him everyday and I know he likes me everyon...

I've known him for years My female friend likes him too. He asked me out. How do we tell my female friend without her getting mad at both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (?) - My friend and I both like the same guy. he has known me since the 2nd grade but he has only known her for a couple months. He and I have been talking for a long time and he has liked me for years now and i really like him too. he asked me out...