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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Am I wrong to want to spend every weekend with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi. Here is my issue. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years, and i feel there has always been an issue with his friends being very important to him. He works shifts so sometimes I dont get to see him much at weekends. It's not that he spends ...

Should I give my friend ANOTHER chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - hi i had a friend of 4 yrs .i thought her to be my best friend . but my friendship is going through some tense moments for past 1 and a half years. she is an extrovert whereas i'm reserved.. but she has always forced me to become an extrovert like...

I am about to start a mixed-sex school. Please give me some tips on talking to girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Hi im 13 years old and just after going to secondary school from an all boys school but ive never talked to a girl before and get nervous when around them and icant even talk to them please give advice on how to talk to a girl...

Am I a tart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I feel awful about myself at the moment .. can I ask your opinions, honest answers appreciated. I feel like a complete tart ... I met a guy a year ago we had a couple of nights fun (no sex) just stupid really I had recently become single and suppose ...

I'm a coward. How can I know if she has the same feelings as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - hi! sorry for my english, they are not quite good ... here's my story : a few months ago , i was invited to a party ; i met a girl and now i think i'm in love with her ... you see, i am 16 years old and i am bit shy and coward ... how can i know if ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

Her first On-Line guy. me. How can I convince her to take a chance with me in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I have been talking to this girl online for a while now. We talk everyday, we tell each other how much we are starting to care about each other and she says she crazy about me. I will be the first guy she's met online, the first issue is that she is ...

How do I keep our friendship without hearing them talk about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hellooooo there! Okay well, bear with me here, it's sort of long! : My ex's is W. My current boyfriend is R. Okay? Here it goes. When I was dating W, we planned to go to the same college together, which happened to be very far away fro...

How do men really feel about wives and girlfriends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 August 2011 (?) - I would like advice from the guys out there please. I see a lot on the internet and t.v. and so forth about when guys all hang out together, such as the ball game or the bar, guys night out. They all bash their wives or gf. They say "being with ...

Why would she come after me and at the moment when I reciprocate a little she gives me a cold shower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - What's your view on this woman's behaviour? Here's the story: I have a female colleague about my age. For the last 6 months she's been passing by my office often, smiling, being flirty, offering to make me a coffee, and all that. I perceived her as ...

My boyfriend's lifelong friend is a gorgeous stripper. How can I be less jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hey there, I am in an interesting predicament. My bf and I have been together for 8 months, and we are very much in love. I am conflicted over his relationship with his life-long female friend. She is very attractive (and a stripper), and h...

My friends' stupid comments are ruining my chances with girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Ok. I am not attractive to girls not because of my appearence but because of the rest people. I will explain this. Many girls compliment me for my appearence and don't have a problem with my personality. However when I am around guys I know, these ...

She will go out with me, but only as friends. Any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - I have a friend who I have known for years, and she has split up from her long term Boyfriend. we have messed around when she was tipsy, kissing etc. I have just asked here out for a date but got the reply she would love to but just as friends....

Does my male best friend still have feelings for me even though he has a girlfriend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Right, I have had a male best friend for over 6 months now, but we both feel like it has been forever! in the first 2 months, we started flirting, texting 24/7, i got told he was a player by many people but i really liked him, so i just ignored ...

How can I just forget about the chemistry I have with my boyfriend's friend? Why is he telling me he wants me one minute and then saying its a joke the next minute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - hello again, another dilema in my life. Basically, my boyfriends friend and I have gotten rather close, started with banter saying how we are secretly together and just telling each other how sexy and hot we are all for a joke. Weeks went by, and ...

Friends with benefits has been going on for more than a year and a half, could it be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Wondering if you all could help me with a situation I'm having with my "friends with benefits" if it was that serious. It's more of a f*ck buddy relationship because we weren't friends at the time we met. Anyway, we've been going on for more than ...

My guy friend became distant after a kiss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Okay so I have this guy friend, he's been like my best guy friend for 5 years now. We get along great and there has always been attraction between us. He has never let me down and I can always count on him for advice or talk about my problems. I ...

Should I tell him his fiance is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've recently started a job that placed me in a friend of a friends home as a housekeeper/caregiver, full time. my employer (let's call her S) is just a little older than me and engaged with 2 children. her fiancé, J, is away working often for weeks ...

My friend goes after all my sloppy seconds!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm just going to get straight into it. I have a friend, i love her to bits and trust her. Well. Not so much now. I have an ex, who im extremely close with and she knows just how much. But everytime shes drunk she tries it on with him, they ...

Will a man cheat because his "man crush" thinks it's okay to cheat on your wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

29 August 2011 (?) - I am concerned about my husband. He has an at home business but recently he met a new friend on xbox life. This is a male friend. I have no issues with him having friends, that's not the issue. The issue is that for the past three weeks he has sta...

What's your read on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - How would everyone read my 18 year old female friend [I'm a guy] asking me to comb and play with her hair from behind? And insisting she's the one who should massage my back over her friend? ...

Torn between my guy and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Ok I have a bit of a problem I,m currently dating a guy who i really really like and we've been dating for near a month now. I met him through my best friends friends. he's the friends brother. Two weeks ago he stood me up and I was heartbroken ...

My friend flirts with my crush

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am really conflicted over a situation I'm in. I regard myself as someone who's genuine and has a good moral compass. Recently I met someone in a professional sense that I developed a crush on over time. This chap is married with children. I ...

How do you get out of the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - How does one get out of the friend zone? How does one be a gentlemen? what does it mean to be mature, mysterious, and cool. im trying to get that new image just i need a good definition on what they are. ...

I've realized I have feelings for him -- is it too late?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I need some advice about my best guy friend. lets say his name is frank. I have known frank for about 10 years and we have been best friends we always go to each other about advice about everything. We went off to different colleges last year and ...

How to I deal with turning down this girl who asked me to homecoming?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - I got asked to homecoming by one of my friends today. I haven't really known her that long and I feel like she might have a crush on me, the problem is though, that I don't have a crush on her in return. She asked if I wanted to go, and I told her I ...

Is it normal for best friends to fight constantly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I have this friend .. actually she is like my best friend .. we do everything together .. she is really the only person i hang out with .. every weekend we have sleepovers, and everyday we hang out, but when it comes to school, we don't say a word ...

Should I avoid befriending single men in case I give off the wrong impression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm in need of some advice. I recently graduated from university and have been quite busy with a new career and new hobbies. I spend what little spare time I get with my family and friends. So having a boyfriend isn't at the top...

I know its wrong but this man has a power over me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I have always been the kind of person who has thought infidelity is the worst thing you can ever do to a person,in a word - the ultimate be-trail that is why I'm so confused at the moment, I feel sick inside. I have been with my partner 10 years, ...

I know he truly wants us both!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - hello, I'm not sure what to do about a situation I've been involved with for two years and need other peoples advice! i met a man by accident two years ago. from the moment we started talking we couldn't leave each other alone. texts run into at ...

Is he into me, even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay so I've just started in a new school where no one know eachother so it's a new fresh start. I like my class and everyone else in the school. But in my class, one guy has catched my attention. I started talking to him on our introduction trip to ...

Not ready to let this 'camp fish' go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Dear readers, I am in need of some serious advice. I worked at this day camp for two months. It just ended on Friday, August 26. There was this guy on the first day of pre-camp that I met through another guy I knew from last summer. We'll ca...

We have two classes together and we are friends but the staring is weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So I was just at a friends birthday party, it was guy girl, and it was mostly swimming. I've known this guy for about 3 years now. But at the party I caught him staring at my boobs a bunch! I just tried to ignore it but it was really awkward! Once ...

My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...

My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...

What are the attributes and conditions for a successful relationship that works? And what hinders the development of a successful relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I would be intersted to hear from others on what attributes and qualities represent essentials in a successful relationship. And what are deal breakers that can ruin a relationship? By a successful relationship I mean one where both parties a...

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

Jack and Jill Are Crushing

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28 August 2011 (F) - Jack thought Jill was hot. She wore short, jean skirts with leggings underneath. She had nice legs. Her shirts were always nicely filled and her lips looked very...lush. She was smart too. Really cool. Jill though Jack was cute. He was funny, h...

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

His communication sometimes is tardy. Am I expecting too much from my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship. we see each other maybe once every few weeks. for the most part we text or skype sometimes. But seems like every time he is with his friends he takes hours to reply or sometimes doesn't even...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

Is it me? Does my attractiveness make people not take me seriously?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - For some reason, nobody takes me seriously. For reference, I've heard from my friends that I have a fairly, ahem, attractive face and body. I've been told I'm very pretty and have quite the voluptuous body. And I'm not trying to sound arrogant or ...

My Family or my Bf? I am worried that the choice I make will ruin my other relationship(s

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I need someone else's opinion. My friends/family and fiance seem to be biased for obvious reasons. Here's my deal: I am 19 and my fiance is 24. My fiance went into the Air Force after 1 year of dating. Our relationship was great and he had to join ...

Do I believe my boyfriend or my friends who claim he cheats, and they hate him for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - What should i do with my boyfriend who my friends hate?! I have a boyfriend who my 8 best friends don't really like. They have heard numerous rumors about him cheating on me and texting girls weird things in the past 7 months that we have been dati...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

Is 'friendship only' possible with the opposite sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I am a woman who is looking for a friendship" only" with a man- what do you think?...

Can anyone explain the possible reasons for his behavior? Is he going through a crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - A man and his wife had just moved in to manage a small volunteer group. There in the group, they met a several new friends, including me and some members of my family. They start to make good progress with the group. Very soon, he man and his wife ...

Did I do the right thing passing this guy up because I thought my friend liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Last night a few of my friends and I went to go to a dance club. We were sort of craning our neck to try to spot any attractive guys in the place and there was very few. However, at one point during the night, my friend was able to spot this very ...

We'd be such a good couple. I want him to ask me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (?) - Right so there's this guy. Yeah I like him. We hang out a bit, text each other a bit too. Not all the time. But yeah, we've been friends for a year and we fell out this time last year and didn't really talk to each other until January this year. We ...

I really like this girl at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - I've worked with a girl for 4 years. Not along side her, but for the same company. So I have not had much chance to get to know her. But I have had a crush on her for years. Whenever I've tried to talk to her she is very shy, and almost as if...