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writes:Okay so I've just started in a new school where no one know eachother so it's a new fresh start. I like my class and everyone else in the school. But in my class, one guy has catched my attention. I started talking to him on our introduction trip to the beach for two days. Even though we don't talk all the time I felt a liiiiittle something. He started teasing my a little just for fun and asking my stuff about me because I speak french fluently so he always asks me to speak french and stuff. One time I was going into his room where he sleps with some other guys and he kinda grabbed my hand kindly from the door handle an pulled me in the room there was another guy in there so nothing happened but it was just kinda funny. He often laughs at my jokes and says hi to me everytime we see each other in a cute way. So friday there was a school party and we arrived and said hi to everyone but he came and hugged me eventhough we had seen eachother a couple of hours before. Oh and we have been sitting and talking with a large group and if he explains something he looked straight at me in my eyes eventhough many people were around. So at the party we danced really close and we looked into eachothers eyes a lot. Then we went to a friends house and then we went home together. Well we decided to go together. When I had to get off he told me I could call him anytime and he would come if something happened or if I needed it. And he kept calling me his girl and stuff. And when we waited on the train we stood close and he looked a little bit away like he was shy or something. So what do you think? Is he into me, and I just want to ask here to get it off my chest. We're both 16.Ps the bad thing is that he actually has a girlfriend :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah it's disgusting I can see that now, but there's this girl at school who he's friends with and she really glues to him and his friend and it kinda bothers me to look at! I just wanna be friends with him but it's hard when she's there all of the time...
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 You are accepting and enjoying his attentions of you.
The *only* thing you should be doing is telling him to leave you alone immediately.
Anything less, and you're an accessory to his lying and messing around behind his girlfriend's back.
Doesn't matter if you haven't kissed him yet. You're playing around with it, dancing with him eyes to eyes, and flirting back. You're already in it hip deep. Time to get out...because being the one he cheated with isn't good for your reputation at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat I meant was that I didn't kiss him or more? And I just wanted to know if it sounded like a friends thing or if he was flirting? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): "So at the party we danced really close and we looked into eachothers eyes a lot."
You did do something. He's just looking to fool around behind his girlfriend's back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou're right. But my question was more if he was into me or if this was just friends? And of course I didn't do anything with him because he has a girlfriend!
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reader, NennaHB  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 I refused being in a relationship with a man I was in love with for not knowing if I could trust him in my absence and because he had met me while being with another one. That left me free to meet a man who I could rely on 100%.
Sure, for you it could be more difficult since you go to the same school but not impossible. Try to focus on someone/something else. For sure there are better boys among your colleagues.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 August 2011):
The walkin dude is right. I'll put it another way too:
If your best friend's boyfriend were cheating on her, and she was with you crying about it because her heart was shattered, you wouldn't be feeling sexual attraction towards him. You'd despise him for what he did to your best friend.
This is that cheater. How can you be attracted to what he's doing to his girlfriend? How can you not think he wouldn't do that to you? You'd start your relationship devoid of trust, and you'll always wonder if you spend any time apart if he's off calling someone else his girl while you're off somewhere unaware?
Not only that, but if you start a relationship with this guy, and his girlfriend finds out (and trust me, she WILL), how will you feel when he tells her that you "mean nothing to him" and it was "just for sex"?
Tell him that three's a crowd, and if he wants tot start a relationship with you, he needs to end things with his girlfriend properly, and not to talk to you until he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): It sounds like he likes fooling around behind his girlfriends back. A lot of teenage boys are like that. He has a girlfriend so you should know better. How would you feel if you were her? He'd only do the same to you anyway.
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