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writes:I have this friend .. actually she is like my best friend .. we do everything together .. she is really the only person i hang out with .. every weekend we have sleepovers, and everyday we hang out, but when it comes to school, we don't say a word to eachother .. we go our seperate ways, we are very diffrent, and we fight over the stupidest things .. like who is right and such, and most of the time we are both right, or neither of us are, then she calls me a no it all .. or something like that, we fight over what to watch on tv , or even what to do .. like we fight over stupidness .. and then it leads to a bigger fight , and then a bigger fight and then us not becomming friends, and then she is like the drama queen of drama, she gets into any drama there possibly is that she can get into, it's like she even makes drama, and then she will talk about people and stuffs .. but i really like her, like she is nice to me but the thing is that i hate .. is that we are always fighting .. we act like we are sisters .. is this normal ? or is it jsut time to go our seperate ways .. and not really be friends anymore? we have bin best friends for a year now .. and i don't know what to doo .. is it normal to fight like this?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 It sounds pretty normal. If you two were sisters, I would say you're normal.
The only way it's not alright is if you're getting really hurt by your rollercoaster relationship. Do you feel like she genuinely likes you? Are you always there for each other when it counts? Do you feel 100% loyal to each other? I have friends who I adore to bits and pieces, but we're really different and that causes us to bicker and disagree... but when it comes down to it, we know that we've got each others back and that our friendship is wonderful and fulfilling. So, be sure that this relationship is positive and based in love. Make sure you trust her 100% - or, at least if you don't trust her 100%, know that and don't set yourself up to be hurt, backstabbed or betrayed by her.
If you both recognize that you love each other to death, you just have stupid fights - then you can just embrace this as a sisterly relationship.
Good luck, sweet!
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reader, BJacobs +, writes (29 August 2011):
 For girls i would THINK yes it is normal for you to fight but im just going off what has happend to my sister and my friends. Also I too fight with my best friend very often but we always end up forgetting about it. I would stay her friend because at some point even the best friends get into it. Its just a part of friendship i gues. If it gets really bad Just sit down and talk to her about all the stuff you fight about and agree to try and not do it anymore.
Best of luck to you!
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