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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship.I don't think he wants to do a long distant relationship. But there has been other guys that i like but not really as much as I like him.Yet i want to move on. and not like him at all but its hard because im so attached to him. we used to sit by each other in class and flirt all the time. he would ditch his friends for me in class and sit next me. I did act like i wasn't interested but i really was and i would ask him to hook me up with one of his friends I was joking, but he would always say no. It was like he didn't want anyone else to have me but i did it to see if he would get jealous. but after that i think he thought i didn't like him. So now i know we may never be together but its just like i want him and only him no one else. i want to talk to him but i don't want to chase him. but it seems like he's gone forever.Please don't say anything rude or mean when responding back.thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): Sorry, you blew your chance and it is gone. He doesn't want a long distance relationship and he's already moved away. I know it's hard but you have to move on. There are plenty of guys your age out there!
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (28 August 2011):
 I don't know what you consider rude or mean, but I am going to be honest with you, and you need to listen.
Your ruined your chance once in high school, and he has moved on, if he liked you in the first place, which I think he did.
However, when you finish with high school, you start anew. You have one more chance. YOU have to chase him. You have to be the one to open up and be honest with him, after being dishonest all these years.
If you want something, go for it, otherwise it will not happen for you. I can promise you that.
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