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writes:I finally go out with the boy I like, he asked me out but last night I went to see him and then we went about with his mates and they were like Drew she's the only one you haven't gotten a boner over and then he was like you don't know, you weren't there. I don't know if he's telling the truth or not but for some reason I want him to get a boner over me since I'm his girlfriend and if he doesn't he must think I'm ugly? and I think I'm ugly because I wear glasses but he says I suit them. Last night also he hugged me in front of his mates and told his mates all about me so does he really like me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): I don't think he would ask you out if he didn't like you. And if he's willing to talk about you to his friends then i think that also shows he really liked you. And what girl doesn't want her man to get a boner over her???
You can pay attention you know, and see if he has one.. if you sit on his lap or hug him very closely.
Have you spent intimate tme together? Because if you havent and you've just done normal things like watch a movie or eat dinner, then he really hasn't had a reason to have one. Also, his friends don't know if he's had one over you! that's so silly, and extrememly rude to say especially in front of you!! Gosh, you should punch them in the face!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Hello my darling,
Your boyfriend's friends sound a little slimy - just to let you know. But anyhow, a) glasses do not make you ugly, they make you look AMAZING (I love my glasses and I get compliments all the time!), and b) if your fella is hugging you and talking about you in front of his friends, he probably likes you.
I think you should spend some alone time with him so that you can build the relationship and feel more secure with whether or not he has genuine feelings for you.
Good luck, sweetness!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): If he thought you were ugly you wouldn't be his girlfriend. He also wouldn't show you affection (cuddling) in front of his mates.
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