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writes:I have concerns for my friend. She became engaged to be married to a guy on January 1. The issue is she has continued a relationship with an old boyfriend up until recently in which I know that they have been having sex. How can she have sex with an old bf and be engaged to another guy. Should I call the guy she is engaged to and tell him what is going on, I am at a loss on how to handle this. Maybe I should just stay out of it and things will work out for the marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Don't tell your friend she is a slut :P.
This is obviously distressing you. I hate it when people cheat too and can see why it would upset you.
I suggest you you tell your friend you know and that it really upsets you. Tell her that if she is capable to cheating then maybe she should reconsider her engagment. Ask her if she really wants to be with just HIM for the rest of her life... If the answer is "no"... Then tell her she should know what is right for her and her fiancee.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy friend does not know I am aware of the ongoing relationship with her old boyfriend. I saw them together at lunch once since she became engaged. She told me she was with him because she felt sorry for him. The old boyfriend apparently does not know my friend is engaged to the another guy. I found out about the ongoing sex with the old boyfriend from my friends house mate. I am feeling, I should suggest to my friend to wait on the marriage, either she is not over the old boyfriend or she is just a slut. What do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): stay out of it but tell your friend how it makes you feel
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