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*atie94
writes:I am 14 be 15 in September.I have never dated. Last night a girl who is quite attractive, better looking than I am, who is 17 asked me while we were secretly alone if she could kiss me. I was shocked and told her perhaps later as I had to think. I had anticipated my first kiss to be with a boy but in thinking about this I am sure it would be a wonderful experience. I want to have a husband and family someday and do not want to be considered Bi or lesbian. Sorry ladies who are bi or lesbian i guess it is each for what you want. I want the experience but I do not want to become addicted to girls. If she was a boy I would have not hesitated. I am not afraid of her telling anyone and she is a friend from school. Please any ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Since you have never experienced a kiss before i think its normal to wonder if you should have done it.I think you want to get it over with.Or you are really desperate to know what a kiss feels like.I dont blame you.I think its your decision and if you dont consider yourself a bisexual or Lesbian then thats fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): you do not have to kiss her if you don't or if you are not ready. do not feel pressurised to. when it feels right it will happen.
if you are confused about any aspect of your sexuality monitor your feelings and later decide straight, bi or gay.
for now just enjoy being a kid, there is no hurry to grow up. just take your time.........
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