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writes:There's this guy that I really like and I thought he liked me too but I don't know what happened. We've been really good friends for about five years; one day we were hanging out and we were kissing then all of a sudden he's pulling away, saying he can't get into that he has to much respect for me and he's only looking out for me. He also confessed that he talks to many other girls and doesn't want to take advantage of me. I don't know what happened do you think he's just making excuses or did he mean what he said.SO CONFUSED PLZ HELP, THANKS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): thank you that helped a lot :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Hi there, I actually went through the same thing that you are going through. When i was a senior in high school, my friend started liking me and even we even kissed. we tried dating for a little while, then he told me that he didnt want to hurt me. He told me that i was a really good girl and that i deserve to be with someone good and that it was for my own good. Till today he tells me that he likes me and that he would love to marry someone like me but since he cant stay loyal he rather not hurt me.
In your situation a few things can be happening
1. he does like u but knows u are good and does not want to hurt u or the friendship
2. he likes u but not enough to settle down so he rather just maintain the friendship. maybe he was just into the moment when he kissed u.
3. He likes you but he wants to give it sometime
Guys can be really confusing. It is hard to read their mind, the more we try the more we fail to. sometimes when we stop thinkin about it and let it go we see the answers right infront of us.
Truth is, if is saying it bc he doesnt want to hurt u....regardless he cares for u. Just give it time...act like it did not bother u! I am sure your questions will soon be answered.
I hope this answer helped u out a little bit.
(i went through this twice :/ )
Good luck!
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