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Is this the start of love... or an extreme crush?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there, I need a little advice. I'm 16 years old and I have a friend who I really like, she's just my type of girl, I love everything about her! I get butterflies whenever I see her and even when I hear her name. I get extremely jealous when I see her and her boyfriend together, but the way he treats her is appalling, he makes her feel so inferior, but everyone knows she won't put up with it for too long, I just wish she would leave him before she gets hurt even more. If it was me in his shoes I'd do everything in my power to make her feel special and I'd never let her down. No one else has ever made me feel like this but I just need to know if what I'm feeling is love, the start of love or an extreme crush.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

Ya, that there is called a crush. However, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I wish my bf were as sweet as you.

I know that if the girl won't put up with it for much longer, then she's gonna want a guy that treats her well. She probably isn't used to it, either. Give her time with this guy, and give her time to recover from the breakup that you claim is immanent.

My advice: wait. Any girl would be lucky to have you.

-GG

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