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anonymous
writes:Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't get hard with me and it's because Ii messed with his head.Is this possible or does he find me unattractive? We get on so well, were like best mates! He hasn't asked me out, which is cool as we get on so well.Also, he's better looking than myself but he said my personality is really good and I make him laugh. Is my personality and 'ok' looks enough for him to really like me?Thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Most likely his sub-conscious is telling him no. It might be because he doesn't find you attractive. More likely he finds himself pushed. He's got a conscience, and it's saying, for whatever reason, it's not right yet.
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reader, xXxLisaxXx +, writes (18 April 2009):
In my opinion personality is better than looks! If a guy likes you for you then your doing something right because lets face it if it was just your looks then he would have only one thing on his mind. I try to think if a guy is good looking then its a bonus but personality is EVERYTHING! Now, just because he can't get hard does not mean he finds you unattractive. if you have led him on accidentally he may think when you flirt with him your heart isn't in it and that it will lead no-where. Like he said he dosen't know how to read the signs. Also if this is really getting to you and making you feel unattractive why don't you talk to him? Has he said your looks are only ok? Or is that what you are reading into it because that is what you believe? I really think you should try talking to him hun because it sounds like if nothing comes of this relationship wise then you could have a really good friendship and you shouldn't pass those opportunities by.Hope I've helped xx
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