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writes:I am asking for advice and just a comment! Please be honest!I am 13 and I am going on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about a year. Every time we go out we are the main thing in each others life. We spend a good amount of time with each other and we talk more than enough! We are so nice to each other when we do talk too but then every time we break up it's just fighting. We are never nice to each other except when he comes back to me... and when he does he doesn't even apoligize for everything. I feel like I'm the only one who apoligizes!! He makes me so mad, he even tries to get with my friends just to make me jealous. He tells his friends to bother me and annoy me and spread rumors around about me and everything that I say to his friends always ends up with my ex and whenever I move on to another guy he seems to always be on top of it. I tried going out with one of his "friends" (they're not really friends they just call themselves that.. long story) and he absolutely hated it! He would start fights with him and it seems like my ex is in charge of my love life.When we did go out he was always mean to my friends. I hattttted it... so much but the problem is that I always got drawn back to him somehow. I can tell he loved me and now I am trying to get him to go out with one of my friends. Am I doing the right thing? Really? because I feel like I seem fine about it but I really don't know if that feeling really means I'm bothered by it. Now here is one of my questions that I mostly want you to comment or give me advice on. I'm hurt. I'm sad. I'm lonly... and it's been 4 months since our break up and I still cry and not becuz I miss him or love him but becuz he hurt me. I want him to know that but he's a guy and it seems like he doesn't care. What do Ii do? He knows he hurt me. He is even trying to get me with a guy but he says that he is shit becuz he hurt me. I don't know what to do. I'm confused. He always changes the subject or drops it whenever I bring up the fact that he hurt me. Does that mean he cares and regrets hurting me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): i am 13 too he is 15 and i feel like i have lost the love of my life we went out for 9 months and i feel like he is my everything we broke up cause we never got to see each other and we tryed to date othe people but it just doesnt feel right we still talk like where dating we say we love each other every night before we go to bed and i just start cryin cuz thats how i want it to be but i know it cant be i love him with al my heart and he is the same with me i just dont know how to get over him every time my friend say anythung about him i just start crying we have been seprated for s couple months and i just cant seem to get over him he is the love of my life and i want him back we talk about everthing he is the kind or guy that accutly cares.... i love him with all my heart for ever and always.... i just dont know what to do....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Oh sweety you are so young yet, you have all kinds of time to learn about guys and the way they are. There are not too many guys out there that show their feeling young or old. I don't think it's a good idea for you to set your friend up with him, and if she is really your friend she wouldn't want to be set up with him, same for you and his friend there are all kinds of little boys out there and do you really want to be set up with a guy that your ex sets you up with? No. I know no matter what anyone says you are gonna do what you wanna do, but the truth is those feelings it's not love it's just your teenage stage, you will know what real love is as you get older, it's not suppose to hurt. I hope this answer helped you out a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): You're only 13 you say... you shouldn't even be looking for a relationship at that age... don't try too grow up to quickly. Enjoy being young!
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