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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Seeing him each Friday is the greatest 10 minutes of my week! So how do I stop liking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - so, where to start, i am 17 and am in love with a man who is quite a lot older than me (he is 38) and ironicly i met him through his wifes' parents and he brother, who are all family friends. i see him on a friday night when i get dinner at the chip ...

He is in a serious relationship, how can I get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey guys there is this guy we had sth as in it was really special then we separated because he has a girl who he has a serious relationship with and she just came to town. Now they are always together, though I have avoided ever seeing them together ...

Do you think that my teacher had deep feelings for me? Or some form of emotional connection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi there, Good God do I know you have all been asked this question millions of times. I know I should take my own advice and read the answers you have all written to similar questions to mine, but I guess it feels more personal when you reply t...

I love my Cousin Sister and I think she loves me back !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Hi, i am sunny, i am in big trouble, i am in love with my cousin sister. this started in fall of 2008. it was then when i had seen her after 10 years. i am 17 at present and she is just 1 year elder to me (18). at that time, it was just as ...

Should I tell my teacher how I feel, or ignore him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I'm in year 10 at school ... I have liked my R.E teacher for almost four years. He's a great guy and we get on so well together. We have so much in common and we talk almost every day ... But recently he has been ignoring me in calss and just acting ...

I'm in a FWB with a married woman who used to be more loving. I'm confused, what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I am a married separated man in mid 40's, i have been separated for 5 years and am still friends with wife, we see each other 3 times a week but there is no sex. I have had 2 serious relationships in the past 5 years, niether worked out because ...

My good friend is into my fiancé, I think he loves her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my good friend is in love with my fiance for a number of reasons : 1. We went out as a group for her birthday and he bought her drinks and they were talking most of the night ( they both speak french) then when it came to leaving and goin...

Is this enough of an apology or should I do more to show him I was just really stressed and upset last week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I've been in cross-cultural, cross-religious, cross-everything relationship for the past 2 years! I'm 27, my boyfriend is 33. We live 80 miles apart and have been seeing each other about every 2 weeks lately. Our relationship has been tough with ...

Should I tell my friend about my feelings for him and feel like a home-wrecker? Or should I just move past this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I have a close friend that I'm starting to like more than a friend. He has always been open that he liked me, but I've always kept my feeling in check. We have a really good connection and can talk for hours and just make each other laugh. Which I ...

Does he still want to marry me even though he knows that's not possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hello.. well my boyfriend is Christian and i am a Muslim girl and we have been together for over 2 years. lately we have been talking about marriage and kids, but the problem is that i cant marry him because his not Muslims. lately we both be...

How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...

How do I stop lusting after my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - What should I do? I really Love my teacher. I am 17 years old and he is 28.. what should i do? My teacher is not handsome or cute but he has that brains and that slim body that makes me fall inlove and lust after him. When he is discussing our l...

How do I get over a 4 year love affair?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I am so glad I came across this site. I need some suggestions on how to get over my lover. I am a married woman with no children and I have been having an affair with a married man for 4 years. His wife has just found out due to some old emails a...

I'm in love with my stepbrother! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - My dad is marrying a gal with 2 boys and 1 girl, she is pregnant with my half brother.I am in love with my stepbrother but my other little stepbrother and stepsister have caught us together and now they threaten to tell my dad. It would destroy my ...

Does my boyfriend's friend have a crush on me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - Well basically I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a long time. I get on fine with his friends. One friend in particular who has liked me previously (although he didn't tell me this) seems to talk to me a hell of a lot. Mostly online. We talk ...

Why is my ex, who is married, is trying to get back in contact with me, when I am also married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - I fell in love with a guy in school a couple of years back. He liked me but found it very hard to commit. We didn't actually date. Now I'm married, he's married, but he's always trying to hook up - I think. Three times he requested me on fb which of ...

My married friend helped me through a difficult time, and now he wants an affair with me...and I am too grateful to him to say no!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - hi He, a married nice,decent,clean,intellectual and matured adult underwent a grievous family problem for helping me out my severe troubles and bringing relief to me. His family was misguided by some outsiders and in spite of trying best in all ...

Strangely attracted to a girl not my usual type. She gets made fun of a lot an I'm afraid friends will turn on me to What now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

19 June 2011 (M) - Okay so theres this girl that i just met and she likes me and i think shes kinda cute but my friends dont they were making fun of her really bad even though i kinda liked her i admit shes not my usual type shes short and not as thin as my usual ...

I have done the right thing and ended my affair, but how do I now cope with the emptiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

18 June 2011 (M) - I am not proud of my affair. I am not that kind of a person. She and I met at work and became close. Her marriage was on the rocks, she has 1 kid and I was living away from my wife and daughter for various reasons. It just happened, first ...

Should I send my teacher (who I have a crush on) my facebook friend request again in order to keep in touch with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl with a crush on my teacher. Luckily, I am one of his favorite students and he loves me very much (in a teacher-student way, I hope). He is leaving this year to another country and when we said goodbye, he told me to ...

For 4 years, I've been seeing a guy who has a gf, and I want more commitment. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - i'm sort of seeing/sleeping w/ a guy that i think i'm in love w/ but the problem is he has a girlfriend for six years and we have been cheating on her for 4 years already. it has come to a point that that i almost broke it off w/ him but i really ...

I kept my love for my teacher a secret all through high school; now that I'm in university I learn he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

16 June 2011 (?) - Hello there, I fell in love with a young man, who unfortunately happened to be my high school teacher. Although he was not involved with anyone during my high school years, I knew the implications of being in love with a teacher so I kept silent...

In love with my third-cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My 3rd cousin n i were in love, but we never had anything. the family notice we had feelings for each other. He's was forbidden to be with me. We grow apart. we older now n and just got in contact. We still in love. Is it okay to be wi...

I'm in love with my cousin but we're scared of getting into trouble.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) - Dear cupid I have known my cousin for about three year..we use to chat and stuff but I never saw him because we were both living in a different countries. I had liked him for the first time I saw his pictures, it was like love at first site..anyw...

How can I (a married woman) get out of an affair with my neighbor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I'm having an affair with my neighbour. It's not something I'm accustomed or comfortable doing and I feel totally out of control. I've pushed my limits well to far and feel horrible. At the same time, I find I'm falling head over heels at an ...

What will my family say about my marrying a non-Muslim guy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we are both in love and cannot live without each other. I have met my boyfriend's family twice. They live abroad, but he hasn't met mine yet. However i am planning to introduce him to my ...

Falling for a married man but I don't want to be a homewrecker! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Right, well, im falling for a married guy! so a few months ago i moved from england to holland on my own to start a fresh. I started a new job a month ago and met "jack", i wasn't really interested at first, i wasn't attracted to him. but i work ...

Should I tell my gay friend how I feel about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - i'm in love with my best friend. he's gay. i've tried everything but i just can't get over the feelings i have for him. i want to be with him so badly. my friend thinks he has feelings for me too. he says things that make me think he does. should i ...

Has anyone ever had the hots for a friend's mom or dad?

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13 June 2011 (F) - Basic question. Has anyone ever had the hots for a friends mom or dad? My friends dad is so gorgeous and I just get all excited when I'm around him. I wouldn't do anything inappropriately, but damn!! Why does she have to be my friend? Ha jk...

Can my therapy work if I'm in love with my therapist??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

12 June 2011 (F) - Hey I was referred to a CBT therapist over a few months ago and I have developed a crush on him. It's really awkward cause I find myself worrying about the stuff I am saying to him - incase he doesn't like me as a person, even though I know re...

What do you think of teachers dating former students?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

11 June 2011 (M) - Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...

Should I continue being happy and smiling with him or should I be quiet and reserved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Hi, I have a crush on my doctor. In fact, he knows and treats my whole family. He is married and I also don't expect any thing that way. I am younger than him (at least 8-10 years gap.) But I want him to like me as a good patient/person. ...

Relationships with ex-teachers - how does society view them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Do you know of anyone who got together with their ex teachers? If so, do you know how they deal with pressure from society in general? Like with the ex student's friends, the ex teacher's students and friends etc. How do people view the coupling in ...

Should I try to rekindle an old love or just stay in my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (?) - Warning: it's kind of a long story/soap opera..... I have this ex boyfriend. He's Jamaican...like, he was born and grew up in Jamaica, and he's older than me, two things that made my mother very suspicious and disapproving of our friendsh...

Moving to BF's town- He wants tme to Stay with him - Our culture will not allow our marrage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I am committed with my boyfriend since 4 months. We both love each other very much and also have trust on each other. But we are of different caste and we know surely that our parents will not allow us to tie a knot, anyway. Now, in this month only ...

Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

3 June 2011 (F) - Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...

How do I get over my crush on my teacher?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

2 June 2011 (F) - help!!! i need help getting over my teacher.... right well hes my music teacher and i have had a huge crush since he came my school 4 years ago. i know nothing can ever happen because hes my teacher and i am his pupil and hes 29 years old, i am ...

Is this really so wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

2 June 2011 (F) - I am seeing my first cousin in secret. We messed around in high school for a spell and recently hooked back up. We truly care deeply for each other. To the world we realize that this is wrong but we dont feel wrong about it. I can no longer have ...

Had Affair, Now Months Later This Guy Won't Leave Me Alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

1 June 2011 (F) - Hi, really need some non-judgmental advice! I am engaged to a loving man and have been with him for 8 years, we have a gorgeous little boy together. I haven't felt completely happy for a long time. I have stuck in there for my son and also because ...

Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

1 June 2011 (F) - So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...

My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 June 2011 (M) - help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...