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writes:What should I do? I really Love my teacher. I am 17 years old and he is 28.. what should i do?My teacher is not handsome or cute but he has that brains and that slim body that makes me fall inlove and lust after him. When he is discussing our lesson in History. He always look right into my eye and he always crack a joke to me. He is single and doesn't have kids. And whenever I see him, i'm happy.. and when i don't see him. I almost die thinking about him . My friend told me that I should forget and stop lusting after him , I should find another guy the same age as me . I just love him the way he is and i want to stop lusting after him. Oh God , please forgive me for loving and lusting after him. Help ... :((
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011): HeyHonestly, you have nothing to worry about. I am 17 and i lust after my business studies teacher. I used to be so obsessed with him, whenever he called my name or asked me to do something for him i used to believe that it actually meant something. The way he smiles :O is so amazing and i would love to be with him, but he's a teacher. and he's into women his own age, he loves the interaction he has with children (hence why he is a teacher) and yes, you are a child! so am i!!! Honestly, i used to lust after one teacher until the next one came along who was 10 years younger and hotter!! it's just a phase that i think most girls fantasize about. Probably even boys too about their female teachers. Believe me, you'll meet someone and you will soon find him better looking, smarter, even more lust worthy than your teacher!!
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reader, hopeFUL_romantic_13  +, writes (23 June 2011):
I'm really close to turning seventeen, and I feel your pain. I'm not going to tell you it's just a fleeting crush because 1) no one can tell you how you think or feel 2) I'm in a somewhat similar situation so if I said that, I'd be a hypocrite. I'm in love with a former history teacher of mine. There's a little over a 20 year age difference. He's married with children. I met him my 7th year (going on to 11th), and the moment he walked into the room and stared straight into my eyes, I knew he was special and going to change me. I didn't expect this though! He's not a great teacher, but one of those who pretty much every hates. He's rude and intimidating. I love everything I learned about him though whether it's good or bad. I have a dark past and I've met people with even worse ones so its takes a lot to scare me off. I'm not going to go into detail because this is already long enough but we still lust after each other (yes I said WE). When I wasn't his student anymore, he showed me that he cares about me. He's a good man though and he loves his family. He knows how I feel and we rarely talk, but we still look at each other with that same longing. Despite the fact that he was rude to me when I was his student, he always he seemed to have a soft side for me. Everyone else noticed as well. I know I love him because I accept his faults, I want him to be happy, and I would risk everything and stand up for him if need be. He's not attractive, but when I realized my feelings for him, I warmed up to his looks. Its a rare thing to happen, but a lot of people with that past teacher/student relationship have gotten married and are very much happy. Believe me, I've done my research. Not all relationships like those are about power and sex. -It's the fact that they were two compatible people who just so happened to meet in a classroom setting. It may have looked wrong to other people, but it felt right to them. Wait a few years after you graduate and you feel the same way then confess to him. If he says no, its not like you're going to see him again. And on that note I'd like to add the adults who judge this and say get over it and that it will never be, try showing some sympathy for these students who claim that they lust for/love a teacher. Just a crush on one it very painful. if you want to talk, you can PM me.
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