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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have a crush on my doctor. In fact, he knows and treats my whole family. He is married and I also don't expect any thing that way. I am younger than him (at least 8-10 years gap.) But I want him to like me as a good patient/person. Please tell me how should i behave with him. I have noticed that when I am with him , I automatically become a happy person, I talked a lot (while in-person most of the time i m serious and tensed).We both smile a lot on each others statements.Should I continue being happy and smiling with him or should I be quiet and reserved. I don't feel that he is anyway interested in me personally. He is professional but with open thoughts and happy nature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Stay reserved. Respect youreself. Be reserved. He's being professional by smiling and all. Talk to him about you're health, keept it serious. And leave as soon as possible. And if you still have a problem, change you're doctor.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Well having a good relationship with your doctor isn't bad however it should stay professional. Smiling and talking is part of being friendly. Just remember he doesn't feel the same way about you.
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reader, michnuggles  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT..
Have you any respect for yourself, your family or indeed his wife and family?
Do you want his professional status and many years of hard work to suddenly come to an end because of your pubescent crush.
Remember what his job is, to help you and make you happy. Of course he is going to made you become happy and smile, that’s what he is paid to do, it what he has to do with all his other patients.
Realistically, Id get over it and quick! Also quite possibly change doctor. You don’t have to let him or anyone else know you are changing, that’s your privacy rights.
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