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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Am I meant to just suffer with longing for my boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I am hopelessly in love with my boss. We are very close and we talk about everything. All I can do is fantasize what it would be like to hold him, to kiss him, to make love with him. The main problem is we are both in relationships. He recently ...

Can we not be friends because it may hurt our partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Im so confuse. I have this bf before, i meet him online and d relation last 5 years but we never meet personally, but we both know we do love each other. i did not try to meet him personally because i know my family will extreme mad at me if i go ...

I confessed to my teacher that I love him! He said it can never happen...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl and am in love with my teacher.He is unmarried, good-looking amd an absolute charmer.He is an extremely talented person and is loved by all his students.i have been his student for alomost one and a half year and i have a ...

How to stop the feelings without giving up the classes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I am currently doing 3 fitness classes a week at my local gym. I get on really well with my instructor but i am confused about the way i feel. I have feelings for her and will do anything during the classes so that she notices me. I know she is ...

31 year old and an 18 year old???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - hey I'm turning 18 in october and i've been head over heels for a former teacher that I had a while ago. He's turning 31 this year i think. would it be ok if i dated a 31 yr old once i graduated high school. cuz in school will def be wrong even ...

I fancy my English Teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I am 15 and I have a crush on my 22 year old English Teacher! She is soo Hot! In lesssons she keeps looking at me and smileing? Why is that? Does she like me?...

I have a crush on my lesbian teacher and its making me question my sexuality!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

24 September 2009 (?) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1: I know the topic of teacher crushes has been discussed to death on this site but I feel that my situation is a little more unique in that my teacher happ...

What are the legal limits? Our ages are 20 and 15. Can we kiss? Anything further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 15 year old girl. We've been talking online a lot for the last few months, and seen each other a few times. As a normal person, her mum likes me, but when it comes to seeing her daughter, she's against it. ...

I'm 15 and had sex with my cousin, she wants us to do it again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - Lately my cousin and I have been seeing a lot of each other. We are both 15 but we both have a thing of ending up on our own some how. Then one day when my mum and dad went out to go shopping they were gone about 2 hours. I can't remember how but we ...

How do I get over this silly crush and rekindle things with my own guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Quick question: What do you do when you have a crush on one of your boyfriend's friends? Recently, I've been getting a lot of attention from this guy, I think about him a lot, and I'm always excited to see him. I find myself enjoying the atten...

Does he want to get caught?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Married lover just asked me to come to his place while his wife is out of town, and children sleeping. First time he has asked. I think he wants to get caught. I think he wants to push the matter. I am debating continuing the relationship. ...

Are we getting ready to head into rocky territory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I'm going to try to make this as brief as possible. I have a great female friend we've been friends for over 10 years. She and my husband are also great friends. They are very much like brother/ sister, always have been, long before I was ever ...

Is he just seeking a friendship or is it more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I am looking for opinions about the intentions of a guy I am interested in. I cannot tell if we have that special connection or if he just views me as a friend. I met this guy a year ago in the same building I worked in, he was nice, flirty, an...

I feel guilty for leading him astray. Should I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - i'm 14 nearly 15 and i've been talking to this guy i've known for about 6 months we get along really well and i like him and he's said that he really likes me the problem is that he's 20 and i've said to him i'm 17 the proiblem here is that i'm...

He says I'm the love of his life but he wants one last chance to put his family back together?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been friends for 13 years and started dating 6 months ago. It was the first relationship I've ever had that felt right. He's separated and when his estranged wife found out how serious we were she decided she wanted him back. ...

Am I confusing the signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Im a 16 year old female and over the past 3 years ive had feelings for my female 29 year old pe teacher.The past year has got out of hand, ive grown to love her. Sometimes i wonder if she feels the same way.... Ive been reading a book on body lan...

Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of ...

Should I finally just give up and realize that we are never going to be more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - So, there is this guy in my life who I've had a crush on (on and off) for about four years. We have both dated other people during these four years yet there has always been something between us that is more than just friends. Some people call...

What can I do to help this girl who has illegal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I accidentally overheard about a twenty year old man who slept with a sixteen year old high school student. It sounded like she was getting help from friends, but what should I do? I don't really know her, but I know that it is illegal. Still, if I ...

I'm confused by this crush I have!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy. He is now friends with me and my husbsnd. I have been married for 7 years now I totaly have a great marrige but I dont know what happen. I am a bartender he comes in when I work that is how we met. Now my husband and i ...

I want to be with a man I can't have. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I have a major problem that I hope someone can help me with! Its driving me crazy. I have the hots for someone I cant have! He's one of my good friends and my ex's friend and for complicated reasons, I know I cant have him and even if I could I ...

Is it OK to date my former sister-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I've been divorced for over a year now. My former sister-in-law (who was married to my oldest brother) is also now divorced from my brother. We both divorced the same year. We've always gotten along really well. We live in different states, but I ...

Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...

I'm in love with my cousin help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I am in love with my first cousin, and i am absolutely positive of this. Ever since i first laid eyes on her when i was 12 years old i had the biggest crush on her. She is 2 years older than me. i am 21 now and she is 23! as years went by we got ...

Family have made my relationship hell,. Please help, where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - well this is how my story began its kinda long so i hope you can bare with me... (i would appreciate it).. so i'm a 17 yr old about to be 18 in three to four months. i met this guy about 8 months ago and we've been talking ever since. surprisingly ...

I'm in love with my cousin. should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I ...

How do I know if he's into me? He is my art teacher..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

12 September 2009 (F) - Well I like my art teacher... But good news we are only like 3 years apart in age. I don't know if he likes me and I think he might have a gf but I can't ask that! It'd be awkward. He's asian too and I don't think he'd be into me because I'm not ...

I'm in love with my best friend's son!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have fallen in love with my best friends son who is 21 i am 39 we have had a little contact sexually but nothing is happening i am married and he has a girl friend. i can't get him out of my head, we have not had full sex at all but I dream of him ...

How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...

My heart aches desperately

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am embroiled in a passionate affair with a man who once taught me English Literature. I was besotted by him at school, and over the course of my sixth form years developed a close friendhip with him. Our relationship oozed frighteningly powerful ...

How should I deal with my situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we h...

I think I love my boyfriend, but I'm dying to experiment with a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and just about to move away to university and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 21. The thing is i'm very confused at the minute. I think i love my boyfriend - but i don't think i'm completely happy with ...

I love my cousin and want to be with him but I don't want to disappoint my mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old and I am in love with my cousin we have been secretly dating since I was 13 I never meant to fall for him We met in NYC after not seeing each other for 7 years I didn't feel him like family He is my best friend the one person that ...

How do I know if he really cares or if its just a game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - i ran into an old classmate from highschool and we had dinner to catch up on old times. It now has turned to something else its like we are drawn to each other and cant help our selves. We never dated in highschool. The chemistry and the way we can ...

Should I be greatful that she cut ties with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - I am 35 year old married man with kids. I had a really close friendship with a woman with whom I worked for about 5 years and she recently left the company. Our relationship was very intense in that it even got to the point in the last 6 months ...

Can I repair my relationship with my step sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - I have massive feeling of love for my step sister. We didn't grow up together and she is alot older than me. I have recently admited to her that i have a crush on her. She doesn't really seem to mind, but i feel arkward around her and i am scared to ...

I am in love with my manager, but I don't want to spoil things for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - hi everyone, i'm a 20 year old guy. And i really have this terrible love problem. I am in love with my manager. She's 22 years old. And ever since i started working for her we've been friends. One could say that we're close friends. Last y...

My married, younger boss has started taking an interest in me..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Im 41 single never been married, no childern, and have just started really enjoying being in my 40s. About 3 months ago I landed a fantastic new job. but, 10 year younger married boss has now started showing interest. late phone calls at night ...

After we became sexually active he told me he just wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I just royally screwed up. I started seeing a married man. I told him it was over because I knew it was wrong after we became sexually active. Now the feelings of love wont go away. When I didnt care he did. Now I care and he is distant and ...