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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am currently doing 3 fitness classes a week at my local gym. I get on really well with my instructor but i am confused about the way i feel. I have feelings for her and will do anything during the classes so that she notices me. I know she is married and also has a child and that even though i have these feelings i would never act upon them for this reason. She is an amazing woman and i dont want to give up the lessons as they have helped me to lose a lot of weight and i respect her as a professional. My question i suppose is how do i stop the feelings without having to give up the classes? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 September 2009):
You can't stop the feelings, but you can put them into perspective. She's a teacher,, nothing more. She's married and happy and she has a child. Keep reminding yourself of that and meanwhile, go out with some friends, have a good time and see who else comes along who is more suitable.
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