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writes:Im a 16 year old female and over the past 3 years ive had feelings for my female 29 year old pe teacher.The past year has got out of hand, ive grown to love her. Sometimes i wonder if she feels the same way....Ive been reading a book on body language to try and work out her feelings and emotions. She always copies my actions such as, if i lick my lips she licks hers, i rub my neck, she rubs hers. She also plays with her hair around me an touches parts of her body like legs and stomach. Ive heard that these are signals a woman is attracted to you. She also puts her body facing in my direction.Under the table in theory lessons she always seems to sit near me and also puts her foot against mine and sometimes she says it's an accident, then sometimes she wont say anything. im not sure whether it was an accident. Last week i moved my knees forward an her foot was dangling in front an i accidentally, it was an accident, put my leg against her ankle and part of her leg, an it stayed there for a few seconds, she didn't move until i did.If she walks past me and im sitting down in my chair, as she's walking past i feel her shoulders or arms going past my back, and if we are walking somewhere sometimes she would stand close so are arms would touch. Also she looks at me often such as in the corridors as im coming, the canteen, assembly. My friends started noticing. Last week in lesson she was explaining work and we made eye contact for at least 8-10 seconds, i don't think that's a normal time. But then sometimes she will start walking towards me in the corridor, then as shes walking past me she will look down an not even look at me, it confuses me. And recently since me and her have been flirting in class with body language(if im being accurate and not just thinking things) she doesn't really speak to me as much anymore,just stares a lot.Im not sure whether im confusing the signals, does she fancy me? help :(, thank you x
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (2 January 2011):
I was in a similar situation. I eventually did figure out that this particular teacher wasn't interested in me that way, and thankfully I did it without revealing that I liked her. So, we're still friends.
Have you figured out yet if she likes you?
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reader, koenig +, writes (19 September 2009):
You may be reading into her body language too much. Some people naturally mimic the body language of others to put them at ease and appear friendly. It's also possible that you could be seeing things where there is nothing - it could be completely random that you're both doing something at the same time, but you only remember the times when you're both doing the same thing.
Your PE teacher could lose her job over something like this and she'll know that. For her sake, please don't obsess over this.
Or she could fancy you. I'm not saying that you're wrong, you really could be right. What I am saying is that this kind of thing could get her sacked to be very very careful with where this goes.
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