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anonymous
writes:i ran into an old classmate from highschool and we had dinner to catch up on old times. It now has turned to something else its like we are drawn to each other and cant help our selves. We never dated in highschool. The chemistry and the way we can talk to each other is undeniable. The problem is he is married. He sends me romantic texts and we talk many times a day and are together when ever not working or running kids and have mixed feelings of all this knowing it is wrong but can't keep away. How do I know if he really cares or if its just a game??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so we were going to the phillies game and he picked me up early and took me too a really nice lunch. For the record he has taken me to many nice placesout. We talk for hours about anything and we ended up in a hotel with a bottle of wine and had passionate sex. we were one hour late for the game. he will send me tsts that he misses me for example the other nite when i was working he sent one saying he shall an amazing sunset that would be so romantic to be under with me. but today he is painting his living room. God I feel that I should be saying your smaarter than this but cant help myself.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): You never know. It's a risk you have to be prepared to take. It might blow up. Take a break and re-evaluate.
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reader, wherestheinstructions?  +, writes (5 September 2009):
If you had met him as stranger at your current age, would you have been drawn to him as much ? Probably not - the rose coloured memories of highschool are clouding your emotional judgement.
He's married, it's a dangerous game, stop playing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): It sounds like he is feeling something for you..but maybe it is just as a friend...I think you would know for sure if he tells you straight out and actually does something about it..like get a divorce(if hes taking you that serious)
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