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writes:i'm 14 nearly 15 and i've been talking to this guy i've known for about 6 months we get along really well and i like him and he's said that he really likes me the problem is that he's 20 and i've said to him i'm 17 the proiblem here is that i'm feeling guilty for leading him astray should i tell him - the reason i dont want to is because i dont want him to think i'm to young what should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (20 September 2009):
 I reckon you need to be honest with him. The sooner you tell him the better. If he really likes you, he shouldn't mind too much. It's likely to affect your relationship but not terribly. It shouldn't be too much of a problem. If it helps, explain to him why you lied. If he cares about you then it shouldn't matter.Good Luck. X
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reader, Accountable +, writes (20 September 2009):
 You really do have to tell him - if for no other reason than this: do you want to start off a relationship with a lie? it would be much worse for him to find out a few months into the relationship, and start to mistrust you and wonder what else you had lied about.
Don't try to guess what his reaction will be, but if its meant to be then the age won't matter for him.
One word of caution i would offer; just be sure that you are ready for a relationship with an older guy. Me and my boyfriend started going out when he was 20 and i was 16, and you really do have to be mature, and strong - dont let him pressure you into things you're not ready for, and make sure he fully respects you.
Hope everything works out, feel free to pm me about it. :) xx
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