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Archived questions from: January, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My fiance is feeling insecure after a burn accident. How can I help him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1791 days ago

31 January 2020 (F) - My fiance has always been self-conscious about his acne. Bad days are occasional, but they do happen, and it causes him social anxiety. A few months ago, he was in an accident that burned his arm, chest, and face, and it has affected how he looks. ...

My boyfriend doesn't know what's expected in a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1790 days ago

31 January 2020 (F) - Hi, What do I do if my boyfriend (Who is an adult.) was never been taught anything about woman/Being in a romantic relationship/ Has never had any experience in a relationship? Details: (Dating for 5 months, I'm his first relationship) My boyfrie...

How do I explain my poly relationship to my sister and others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - I am in a poly relationship with two men and have been for nearly a year now. Everything is great although we keep it quite hush hush as we want to live our lives in peace. We all live together so we just say that one of the guys is our roommate. ...

The woman I'm dating says I'm too much for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

29 January 2020 (M) - I've been in a relationship with someone for 3 months, I must stress, it's not sexual yet, but we both flirt and it feels like something we both like. Recently she told me I was too full on, too involved in her social media and that it was too ...

I'm uncomfortable with boyfriend's friendship with this other girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - I would appreciate some advice on this situation. My bf and I have been dating for several months, we started long distance bc of college a few months ago, but we aren't out of hs we met at cc. So we started out as friends and we are each other's ...

I just need another person's perspective on boyfriend's attitude when we are gaming.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1796 days ago

27 January 2020 (F) - Hello everybody. I would like peoples honest opinions on the way my partner sometimes speaks to me, as I feel he could be more tactful with his words sometimes. I will give one recent example from the other night. We were playing a two player g...

Is it possible for this to happen?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

27 January 2020 (F) - My boyfriend was married at twenty years old, he is now forty. He has said he was naive, manipulated into getting married and knew he didn't love her. Is it possible people do get married when they know they don't love someone and know it wont last ...

Is he normal? He says he doesn't want to sleep with me right now.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

27 January 2020 (F) - I had a date last night with an amazing guy! We went out for drinks, ice cream, and to browse books at the local bookstore. After that, he invited me back to his place to play chess. We didn't get to play because we were too busy talking but then he ...

How can I stay positive, I know I will never be slim and trim.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

23 January 2020 (F) - Can some people give me some ideas on how to stay positive . I suffer from a hormonal endocrine problem that Menander my body holds on to body fat . I’m medicated for it and see a specialist regularly but it will be with me for life . I follow a ...

Is it psychological ED?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1798 days ago

21 January 2020 (M) - Hello, Not really sure where to start... I'm a relatively young male and I just entered my first relationship. I am a virgin. I've never done anything sexual, other than masturbate. My girlfriend is also a virgin. Very recently, my girlfriend a...

Is my One Night Stand acting normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1801 days ago

21 January 2020 (F) - I joined plenty of fish in August last year, and swapped numbers with a guy, he lived in a differnt town then me , but had family members in my home town, Anyway new years eve he was down and we finally got to meet, i knew from day one that whe...

I don't know how to be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1803 days ago

20 January 2020 (F) - I split up with my ex of 8years 7months ago but only stopped living with him 3months ago. Since splitting up I had a few casual dates that meant nothing and then met this guy I really liked him and I thought everything was going great but he just ...

Is there a cruel free way to break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1801 days ago

20 January 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've been with my bf for 1 year now, it's been a year full of ups and downs. The first few months of the relationship were great, well he's my first boyfriend, and I felt on cloud 9 with all those emotions and the love I felt, but ...

My boyfriend wont even text me while another boy will talk for hours on the phone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1801 days ago

19 January 2020 (F) - my boyfriend don't give me the attention that I need in he always making excuses about why he did not talk to me. But it is another boy that like me in he been there for me more than him in. me in the other boy be on the phone for 10 hours or 8 ...

I've lost the desire for sex with my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1796 days ago

19 January 2020 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 5 years. I really do love him so much but in the last year I've felt little to no desire to sleep with him. I feel terrible but when it does happen it just doesn't feel exciting. Usually he is the only one that ...

My girlfriend appears to be stalking people I know.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

19 January 2020 (M) - I was using my girl’s laptop to finish off some work when I ended up closing my windows and having to open them up through my history upon clicking I realized that she had been pulling up instagrams for people on my Instagram. Upon clicking the ...

I'm battling to trust my boyfriend's word about strippers and lap dances.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

18 January 2020 (F) - My bf and I of 5 years recently had an argument about him being at strippers and getting a dance. It was brought up again last night and his reaction took me by surprise. He had asked what was wrong I said upset still and he said after a week he ...

My boyfriend has a child already, but I'd like to have one of my own.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

18 January 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year now. He's almost 25 I'm 23. Hes already got one child a beautiful little girl whos 1 and a half. But lately I find myself wanting one of my own more and more. One who can call me momma. Her mother ...

I'm trying to put myself in my boyfriend's ex's shoes and wonder why she's behaving the way that she is, but I can't imagine why

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

17 January 2020 (F) - My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture but on the peripherals, and I'm finding it hard to understand why. I have tried, so I'm just going to put the facts, coupled with my thoughts, and would like anyone to give me their feedback on what they ...

My boyfriend treats me terribly, maybe I deserve it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, hoping someone can offer some advice.. I'm a 31 year old woman and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's the same age. He's been living with me for six months, around the same time he lost his job. It wasn't something we ...

A man I had sex with keeps ghosting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi all So I really like this man who split from wife last year and now lives on own - we have had one night which was amazing about a month ago but nothing since . I’ve decided if he isn’t contacting me then he isn’t interested so have left it...

My live in boyfriend is allergic to my cats.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

15 January 2020 (F) - Hello and thank you for any advice and opinions. I have a beautiful family of 5. My bf 3 cats ( midnight, xena, and princess) and a dog ( max). I have had my first cat midnight for about 4 years, my cat xena for about 3 years, my cats pri...

Did my boyfriend cross a line or did I overreact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

15 January 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I broke up with my boyfriend about 1 month ago we didn't talk for 2 weeks and he was already dating and talking to other girls (I saw him in the university with them), he came back to me again and told me that he wants me back. I ...

I think my boyfriend lies about what he does when out with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1809 days ago

13 January 2020 (F) - I suspect my bf is lying to me about his activities when out with his friends. We had a discussion before where he mentioned the sort of antics they get up to but he doesn't take part. I'm mostly concerned about his activities when they are going to ...

My boyfriend gives me the bare minimum of time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

9 January 2020 (F) - I'm struggling with knowing if I should stay in a relationship and be patient or if I need to end things. I am 28 years old who has been in 3 serious relationships over the last 10 years. I've dated several people in addition to this. The man I'...

Why would a 45 year old man post topless pictures of himself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1815 days ago

9 January 2020 (F) - Hello- My boyfriend of a year is 45 and I’m 41. He is a nice guy very smart professional and caring. He has been dealing with depression for some times now and I have tried to be helpful. He goes to these lost phases and goes quiet . I know he ...

Should I be concerned that he really isn't into communication when we aren't together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1817 days ago

6 January 2020 (F) - I’ve just started dating a man but I can’t tell how into me he is. We’ve had around 10 dates and spent days together in between. We’ve spoken about how neither of us want to rush into things and are both happy taking our time getting to know ...

Should I move on or give it one more try with my overly religious ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1818 days ago

6 January 2020 (F) - So I dated this guy in 2013-2015 We got very serious very fast. He came from an overly religious background but when we met he was more or less totally normal and although he was against having sex before marriage. We did it multiple times a...

He's all that I've known but I feel I'm stuck in a rut and that the relationship of 12 years has run its course

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1818 days ago

5 January 2020 (F) - I'm 34 and have been with my bf 12 years. I am pretty sure the relationship has run its course. I really don't want to waste the 12 years we have spent together but I feel like I'm missing out on something more real and passionate. We hardly ever ...

How do I approach my partner's blatant lies when she gets home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1817 days ago

4 January 2020 (M) - My partner and I have been in a relationship for a couple of years. Two weeks ago I had to have spinal surgery and I can’t get around at all (only can walk around house, not even allowed to lift washing or stand to make dinner) she has been great ...

How do I bring up with men I'm dating that I'm nearing the end of child bearing age and I want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1821 days ago

2 January 2020 (F) - I am bear the end of child bearing age. I was never married before. For a long time I attracted the wrong type of men and I worked hard on changing that. I’ve worked hard on myself even went back to school and really remade my life. Now when I’m...

Have I blown it by asking for more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1820 days ago

1 January 2020 (F) - Hi all Have been friends with gut from work for years , he split from wife last year and flirted with me - I told him it was too soon for him but that I liked him . He then started talking again months later but then went quiet again - I left h...