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writes:Hi all So I really like this man who split from wife last year and now lives on own - we have had one night which was amazing about a month ago but nothing since .I’ve decided if he isn’t contacting me then he isn’t interested so have left it - then few days ago I get a message asking me if I regret that night which of course I said no i enjoyed it - he said he did too .Few days later I decided to ask if he thought we would do that again to which he said “do you want to ?” I replied “ do you ? “ to which I got nothing !!!! Sooo annoying , he can talk about it but not me ?Next day I said forget I mentioned ! Why did he bring it up in first place ? Does he want to again ? Why ask me then ignore me when I ask him Argggghghh Reply to this Question
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (18 January 2020):
 He is definitely playing games with you and by you responding, you're getting roped in.
I suggest that you cut contact with him. He gives you just enough to keep you wondering and keep you interested and when he wants to sleep with you again, he'll have an in.
Move on. It's for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2020): He's obviously playing the field and having sex with other women. He does not want a committed relationship. Just sex when he feels like it. He might even have a steady girlfriend! But he'd never tell you that! He is just toying with you. If the sex was as amazing as you thought it was, he would have been banging on your door. Men go after what they want. Of course he'd take if you were aggressive but then he'd go ice cold again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2020): A male's interpretation.
He wanted to know if you enjoyed yourself because it's a boost to his ego.
He's keeping you in-mind for booty-calls; but he isn't going to give you any opportunity to sink your hooks into him.
He's all in it for fun and games, if you are. As long as there are no strings attached.
He won't encourage you to grow feelings by immediate responses to your contact-attempts.
He's a tease!
As the old adage goes:
"Don't call me, I'll call you!"
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (17 January 2020):
 He isn't someone that you should plan on having anything but one night stands with. He's only interested in you for sex when he gets horny. You are on the backburner just in case nothing else comes up.
MOVE ON
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 January 2020):
 He is just keeping you on the back burner in case he wants a session of sex.
I suggest you block him and move on.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (17 January 2020):
 Block him and move on. He is playing with you. You can do better.
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