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Archived questions from: July, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My family says I’m limiting myself by not going out as friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2309 days ago

31 July 2018 (F) - I have a bf, but I don't limit my social interactions just because I'm in a relationship. The other day a single guy asked me to a concert, just me and him. I see him when I gather w/family friends about once a year or so. Otherwise I rarely if ...

How do you swim through the dating pool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

31 July 2018 (F) - How do you swim through the dating pool? I am a 32 year old female - I am not religious but rather building my faith through spirituality. I have been single for two years. Not to sound vain but I do get picked up by guys ( the wrong ones) so i...

Girlfriend & I had our first real argument. She doesn't want to let it go. How do I approach this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

30 July 2018 (M) - Hi Guys, I’ll keep this as short as possible. Basically had a bit of a disagreement with my GF of almost a year yesterday. We went to a supermarket to grab some things and she asked if we should swing by a McDonald’s on the way back. I sa...

When is it appropriate to tell a date that I don't want kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2309 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I'm a 25 year old woman. Have never had the desire to have children and while I know people change over time, I think I may never want kids. This issue makes it a bit harder for me because I noticed most people want kids, while the minority of ...

I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...

Lack of sex has made me cheat on my partner. Do I just leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2314 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Hi My partner of 6 yrs does not have sex with me at all. He says he just can't be arsed and does not have any interest in sex. I have lived like this for 5 yrs with him. I the first yr he rarely did have sex with me. We are 50 and 51. I have s...

Why is it no matter how good, true and honest you are, there are still people who don’t see it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2314 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Why is it no matter how good you are and how true and honest you are there are still people who don’t see it. The older I get the more I realize what is right and wrong and I realize what I deserve in life and what I should allow in a relationship ...

Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1905 days ago

27 July 2018 (F) - Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me? He gave me a vague response, it was "I just like to be hard already so we can have sex." Then i explained how that could be interpreted wrong, if he didn't try to explain it to me. He then ...

Is it normal to feel really close to someone when you hold their hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - Is it a normal to feel really close to someone when holding there hand ? it was the first time that I held anyone's hand and it made me feel so special and wanted by someone especially because it was like a first date and I was getting to know him ...

Do I tell my parents that my friend is dating a man 30 years her senior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - my friend is in a relationship with a man 30 years old then her , ive known him for nearly a year no and I know age is just a number but I still find it so strange but I have accepted that is she is happy being with someone a lot older then her then ...

I'm uncomfortable with my boyfriends online long distance female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2314 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - I am very insecure about my boyfriends female friend. They have been friends for 5 years and have only met twice within the 5 years. She lives in another part of the country. They met online but he decided he just wanted to remains friends with ...

We moved in way too quickly and now finances are breaking us apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - Hey all.. Before I start, please don’t include judgement saying I shouldn’t be living with him yet, it’s too soon to have introduced him to my daughter, etc. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating 6 months. We moved in together rather quickly ...

We've been online dating for 9 months and he just now knows I'm a virgin. Is he upset to not know sooner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2314 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - i have been dating this man for 9 months online. he has recently, within the last week, been so shocked to hear that i am a virgin. i sense that he is angry at me for revealing this piece of info now- not months ago. lack of trust maybe i d...

Was this interaction cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2316 days ago

26 July 2018 (M) - Hi Guys, I am confused at the moment and need advice. My girlfriend received nude pictures from a guy she had a fling with way before we started dating. He asked her for pictures and she replied saying no you should send me pictures. he end...

He said he gave me a test, I call it pure BS

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - The other day the gut I've seeing for a couple of months asked if its OK if he still sleeps with other women I got really upset andsaid no it ruined the nice night we were having. now he's saying but he only said that to test if I was serious about ...

Why doesn't he follow up after our dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2316 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - I met a guy on a dating app two weeks ago. Cue, steady flirtation and intrigue for 10 days or so until he have me his cell number and we con tinuned onto texting, We had planned to get together for a drink on his side of town (we dont live super ...

My friend never has time for me anymore since she started dating. Do I walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2316 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - Not sure if anyone on here can help but I wanted some advice about a friendship. One of my best friends has recently become very distant and so reluctant to see me. I've been trying to arrange to see her one weekend for several months but I jus...

Am I overreacting or is there something going on that I am not aware of out of all of this ? Need opinions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - Hi there, my boyfriend (which is OLDER than me) been together for almost 6 months,he has behaved like a true man with me, always very pleasing,loving,etc,he recently purchased his first house. very modest,it's a home that will eventually use for ...

In love with someone else whilst in a relationship with someone I am not in love with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

24 July 2018 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months now. We get on really well as companions and friends, we really care about eachother and are affectionate. I know he loves me and i feel safe with him. The longstanding issue has become ...

Why don't any of my male friends think of me as a potential dating partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - I’m a 34 year old, single, straight female and I’m in a real predicament as to how the opposite sex view me. I’m quite a sociable person so I have a large mix of friends but I also have a large group of close male friends of a similar age grou...

My ex brings his new girlfriend(who he cheated on me with) when he comes to babysit our kids in my absence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - My ex and I share 4 year twin girls and although he cheated on me and is now with the person he cheated on me with, we have a reasonable relationship. Recently he has started bringing his new girlfriend round to my house when he looks after them whe...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm done with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year. Everything was great at the beginning, however, the past few months I've been feeling very turned off and disappointed by him. He had always claimed he's the good guy, until he was out with his ...

I don't appreciate my boyfriend's lack of consideration of how my work life is.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

20 July 2018 (F) - Bf and I have been together almost 4 years. He claims I never want to hang out with him or that when we have a day off I'm too lazy. Which is is ridiculous. To start, this summer he has been a slacker compared to me when it comes to work. The las...

How do I tell my long-term girlfriend that I'm secretly gay and have had affairs with men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

20 July 2018 (M) - Hi everyone.. Im looking for some genuine advice, if anyone would be so kind.. How do i come out and tell my long term girlfriend that I've had an affairs with men? I know its wrong, and i shouldn't have lied to myself and her, but i fou...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2322 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

I don't see this relationship lasting. How should I tell my boyfriend that I'm extremely annoyed with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2323 days ago

16 July 2018 (F) - How should I tell my bf that I was upset? I have been seeing my bf for 6 mths, I didn’t not want to seem like I’m nit picking or anything but a few things are bothering me. He rarely iniates intimacy. His excuse is he’s shy. Surly not after 6 m...

Everyone tells us moving in together after 2 months of dating is too soon!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

16 July 2018 (F) - What's the consensus for knowing when you're ready to move in with someone? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a little over 2 months, but we see each other every day (we work at the same company), spend hours/weekends at a time togeth...

What does he want? Is there something here or just a sexual relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

14 July 2018 (F) - Going back about 4-5 months ago, I met a guy one night out at a bar. We are 5 years age difference, I'm 22 and he's 27. We immediately slept together that night. We kind of clicked quite well and he got my number, stayed in contact with me and we ...

Shall I stop being a gentlemen and be a man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2323 days ago

13 July 2018 (M) - Just wondering what you guys would think what’s on this girls mind. She is married with 2 kids. She is few years older than me, we work together. She is quiet person, well respected and often hates guys advancing. For example a friend of mine will ...

Why doesn’t he answer his phone when he’s with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2327 days ago

13 July 2018 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 5 wks we have had a great 5 wks (I know it's only 5 wks) but one thing that bugs me is when we are together he won't answer his phone if a message comes through and often put it on silent. . Why is this ?? He says he ...

My boyfriend is going away on vacation for two weeks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

10 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and we have an amazing relationship. In a few weeks he’s going away with his family to his family’s house in Europe for 2 weeks. I know this sounds pathetic, but I’m genuinely upset that he’s ...

What would you do in my situation? Travel first or settle down now, travel in retirement?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

9 July 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for a year. I'm pretty happy with this guy. We've had ups and downs, but overall things are good between us. We love each other. We have a holiday booked together and are planning to move in together. Howeve...

I think I'm a great catch so why don't more guys go after me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

9 July 2018 (F) - I’m in my early 20’s and I’ve been single for a few months now, and I’m having a hard time figuring out why guys don’t really approach me when I go out nor message me. Even on dating apps like Tinder, I don’t have as many guys as I’d like try to ...

My annoying girlfriend makes me want to bang my head against the wall!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

7 July 2018 (M) - My girlfriend frustrates me, I have been working hard all week, I haven’t even bothered trying to be close to her as when she sees me she remembers to take me to get replacement fan, than it’s food shopping, than it’s some other chore. This week...

I don't want to ruin my future with this guy by not making the right choice. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

7 July 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year but we've known each other for three years as we met at university. He is starting a masters degree this year, whereas I've decided to go straight into employment. His masters is at a university over ...

Why do I have a strong gut feeling that there's something going on between my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

6 July 2018 (F) - During the first 2 years of being with my BF, he was still in touch with his ex stringing her along, not telling her that he was in a relationship with me. When I found out how he lied about not being in contact with her, I was very upset. Since ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and questioning my relationship with my partner because I just found out that he's slept with numerous prostitutes before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - Hello. I am 8 weeks pregnant , was so happy with everything and looking forward to the future but now I’m seriously re thinking the whole thing. I have been with my partner a while and we were just discussing the blood tests I am getting for...

Am I overthinking his binge drinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - I'm the kind of girl who likes the occasional night out to celebrate something. However my boyfriend is a party animal and it seems he would binge drink into the early hours quite often. Does this say something about his personality/values or am I ...

He looks up his exes when we argue!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

1 July 2018 (F) - I noticed my boyfriend had looked up an ex recently and he has admitted that after some bad arguments he has looked up exes as a form of escape. He's done this "every month or so", just looking at their pictures. I understand looking up exes out of ...

I don’t have to get married but I still want a ring!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

1 July 2018 (F) - I am hurt, Insulted and don't know what to do. My bf and i are together already for 3 years. Everything smooth and find. But there's one thing im asking him to do for me. A partnership ring. Yes ' not wedding ring but a partnership ring. He ...