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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

One drunken kiss--do I tell my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Please give me some advice guys on this dilemma I face, I cant talk to anyone in real life about this, so you guys are my only hope. So my fiance and I are together six years, engaged four. We got engaged very young, and we were dealing ...

How can I tell him that his clothes are putting me off him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - I met a very nice man online and we've been on a few dates and have got on really well. Nothing physical has happened between us. Before we actually met we chatted a lot online and he ticked a lot of the boxes in what I'm looking for - we share ...

How do I regain my dignity back after lashing out at my cheating ex and friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1772 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discover...

He said he wants to get over me and deleted me on fb

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Help all, I was dating with this guy for 3 months and we were on and off. We were friends on fb. Evert single time I went out, I poster my pictures and he liked it and texted me how was my dinner date or Etc... He was trying to learn i guess if...

I want to know his thoughts about our dating future but I'm afraid to ask

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - I have been divorced for 20 years, dating but without commitment. Seven months ago I met a recently widowed man (whose family I had known for years, but not him). I am 78 and he is 72. I want to know his thoughts about our future together, but af...

Help me with my craziness! Its like I enjoy being angry at my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - Hi guys :) I am just wanting a bit of advice about overcoming my Craziness. Recently I have been feeling more and more upset with Some things that my boyfriend does. Little things will upset me or I ll get in my head about a certain things. At the t...

All my friends are moving on, dating ect and I feel left behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Well you may not know this but this is the 5th time I wrote here in an ever increasing attempt to turn my life around. Let me start by saying...yes i have experience with women and the only reason i 'll act the way i am now because being alone is ...

Is this man using me as a back up or did he actually like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - Should I give this guy another chance? I recently met a guy on match, he is 11 yrs older than myself and is early 50s. We met at least on 5 occasions. The last time I stayed over at his place, we got a little intimate but we never went all the way...

We were taking it slow and then there was a complete 180, what do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - About 2 years ago a friend of mine showed me the instagram of a friend. She commented on a picture of us together and inquired who I was. I could tell from her pictures that she was gorgeous and outgoing. Real life of the party type of girl. Well...

My girlfriend knows our relationship is one sided but does nothing to change it. Should I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Okay so this is a short question. I do everything for my girlfriend. I cook for her, drive her, buy her things, etc and I feel she does little in return. On a few occasions she has even said I know I do nothing to contribute, does that bother you? I ...

Obsessed with a girl in my class. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on a...

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. ...

Should I be concerned that my Bf is asking for ''space'' when it's all been going so well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - My question: Should I be concerned about my boyfriend asking for space when everything has been going so well? Also, did I respond in a good way when he asked for space? Background information: I have been in a LDR for a few months with a ma...

I would have loved to go out with him. But was he genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3409 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Omg there's this guy who I find very attractive. He lives two hours away from me and he's a cop at the weekend. we hit it rite off talking etc he asked would I go home with him and I said I'm not into one night stands. When he heard this he...

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who ...

We've been together 6 years and still his ex keeps contacting him. How can this woman be discouraged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Dear cupid me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and his ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She keeps pushing him about wanting to know if he is still in love with her. What can we do about her ...

Unrequited love. It's been so long, but I can't get over him. Should I call him to ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me ...

What's an assertive, direct, funny response to their hot and cold dating behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

29 July 2015 (M) - A recurring situation is I'll go on a date with anothe gay guy. thing seem to go well. They'll send me a thankyou message after, and continue small talk here and there. I'm pretty direct and will try to lock off a second date, thats when they st...

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

What choices are there for me to consider? I don't want my son subjected to all this tension any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

29 July 2015 (M) - So I am in a situation where my one and a half year old son, fiancee, and myself are living together with her mom and dad's house so we can save money. Of course it has turned into a complete disaster. My fiancee and I now argue over things like...

How to make a complicated situation better? Do I have a chance with my baby's dad as in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3409 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - There's a guy I've been into for a really long time. We always would flirt and it seems like there was something there between us. Well we complicated things by hooking up and had a baby. The damaging part is that when I found out I was pregna...

My boyfriend and I aren't texting as much. Should I be worried? What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3410 days ago

28 July 2015 (?) - Hi guys. Me and my boyfriend used to text everyday and it would be a mix of him texting first and then me. However lately the texting seems to have reduced. Should I be worried and what should I do? Any advice would be appreciated x...

We've been dating a month. Am I setting myself up by thinking he's special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3410 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Five years ago I made a list of qualities I wanted in a man. To my surprise, he actually existed-right down to the blue-green eyes and hometown. This freaked me out a bit but hey, coincidences happen right? Anyway, I enjoy him a lot. We've been ...

We have a 6month old baby together. How can I tell him I don't think I love him now, without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am currently engaged and have a six month baby with my partner but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I love him like a brother, we are buying a house together and I still want to live with him and raise our child, but i don't want a r...

Three years together and my Gf has asked me to pay ($5000) towards a medical procedure she wants. What would you do if in my situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - I'm in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. She's always been independent and has never asked me for anything. For the past couple of months however she has been thinking of getting a surgery that insurance won't help wit...

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3411 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back ...

Is this history repeating? Could my current GF be similar to my ex? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now.. we are planning a baby and to buy a house together. Sometimes we have blazing rows which out me in bad form. Last blazing row we had ... I started thinking about my ex. Just curiosit...

How long should it take him to call me if he is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Hi. Your views would be appreciated. I came across a guy I met a few years ago on Facebook last night ( we met breifly at a band audition but no time to talk or meet properly) on the 'People you might know' bit. It turns out we have a mutual freind. ...

He wouldn't go public with our relationship so I ended it. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - He says his marriage is ended and they have both moved on but he wont go public with our relationship or remove his "married to... [her name]" Facebook status. Did I do the right thing ending it after giving him the ultimatum remove the status and ...

Did potential date over react to my question

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - i joined a dating site a few month ago and have been chatting to a guy for a couple of month. everything is going well and we plan on meeting this week. we have since exchanged phone numbers and have emailed each other a couple of pictures and when ...

My obsessing/infatuation is making me miserable. How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

26 July 2015 (M) - I have a problem with infatuation/obsession that is making me miserable. Every time I meet a girl that I like it's like a thunder bolt hits me. From the first date I become completely infatuated and can't stop thinking about the person. I am afr...

I'm cancelling dates because I'm afraid of a broken heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - I work in m-pesa. There's this frequent customer of mine who i have known for four months as a client and even gave him my phone number. One fine day he spilled the bin and claimed that he has feelings for me, in a way i believed him and i was so ...

He's 30. Should I try to enjoy some fun with this guy or back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - So, I met this guy and feel like there was an attraction between is. Since then, we've been chatting on Facebook and I feel well probably do coffee or something at some point. I know I'm getting a little ahead, but I've been thinking if I sh...

Long term is he the man for me? Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - Hello, I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year, and we have been together for a year and a half. Right now I am very seriously considering breaking up with him, but I am having a hard time making a choice. In many ways he is very g...

Is there hope that this mostly LD relationship can survive? Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been together for a couple years. Half of our time has been together in person and the other half of it has been long distance. We are still currently long distance. However, after quitting his job (they were going to fire hi...

Do I trust him or not? Something is making me wary.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - I have just started seeing someone but I am finding myself a little wary of his actions. I trust him yet I don't think I do. For example last week he said he was going to watch a film at 9pm and said night. I thought that was odd because why ...

My Mum has issues with me dating an older lady!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

25 July 2015 (M) - Mum has issues me dating older lady. She's turning 36 and I am 32. She has a daughter about 10 years old. The relationship has been good. We have dated two years and my mum is totally against it. She feels she is way older and much too mature for ...

Did I cut him off too quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Ok so i was dating i had met a guy online. We had been dating for around two weeks and from the first we clicked instantly. We had gotten along so well that we were speaking everyday throughout the day he had told his family and friends about me and ...

I don't feel I owe him an "official" break up. My friend says I left my bf for minor reasons. Did I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it immature to leave a long term boyfriend for minor reasons? My bf has never spent any of his birthdays with me for the almost six years we've been together. It too four years for me to meet his mum and I've never been invited to family ...

I'm horny and unsatisfied but not sure if I'n ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, is it normal to feel horny most of the time? I am 17 (which is the legal age for sex) and I have a boyfriend. I dont want to pressure him into anything though as I am not sure he's ready. But I feel really horny a lot of the time and ...

I'm not comfortable with my partner's colleague coming home this often and it seems like he doesn't respect boundaries

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Me and partner live and work together and we are expecting our first baby, our home is next to the place we work , we work in a school. I moved in a few months ago and everything is good and we are happy about the baby etc. My partner works wi...

Is he trying to say that he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Hello, a guy talks to me alot, he flirts alot and compliments me very much. He asked me 3 times in every while for my number but i accepted to give him my number at the third time. Once i was talking to him he said that 'im a talkative person', and ...

I've been scarred from previous relationship and think of ex though I don't want her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I split up with my ex a year ago and have only started to get intimate with someone new but I keep getting very emotional being with the new person. I don't know why! I really, really like this new girl but I keep thinking about my ex and how bad ...

Is it normal to end up having a real dislike of your first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it normal to end up having a real dislike of your first love? The fact is - when I was at college 20 years ago - I fell for this guy and we started dating ( my first proper relationship). It lasted on and off for about 6-7 years and then we...

My fiance promised we'd all move in to his house together. I can't pay the costs and he won't pay. Do I walk away now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - I've been with my partner for 6 years. We got engaged last year. My son and I live with my dad after the death of my mum last year. The plan was to move in with my partner once an extension on the house has been completed as it is currently too ...

2 years together and a child, but boyfriend feels he has to move in but doesn't want to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - hi really hope someone can give me some good advice I have been with my boyfriend 2 years we have a 7 month old son it is a happy relationship lately he has mentioned moving in together which would be nice but we were talking last night and he ...

My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says ...

Help! I don't feel loved next to porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I've never gone on anything like this for advice but I'm alone in this. My friends and family wouldn't understand. I can take judgement in here but not from them. Ok, my fiancé and I have been together since we were 16. We're 27 now and have two ...

I'm not sure that my boyfriend is ready to propose marriage and it makes my heart heavy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please bare with me, i'll try to make this as clear and as short as possible. My boyfriend has been talking about proposing for sometime now. We live in a conservative culture where it has to be official and have his pa...

Does my boyfriend have 2 phones linked to facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Ok I was with my guy quite recently and I noticed his phone went off - he was out of the room so I didn't answer it but I saw the number. Didn't think anything of it - a few days later, I was gong through my phone and I thought 'I wonder who that ...