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writes:I have never really been one for internet dating, not sure why really. Anyway my Friends at work signed me up to this dating site so i thought i would give it a try. I went on a date last Wednesday, just for a drink. It went really well, she seemed really nice and ticked alot of my boxes, She kissed me on the cheek as she got out of my car. We have just been out on our second date last night and we went out for some dinner, and again it went really well, chatting, eye contact, and getting out of the car this time she gave me a quick kiss on the lips. Im just abit paranoid now because i sent her a text this lunchtime saying how i enjoyed last night and hope her day is going well, and i have not recieved a reply yet. I really like this girl alot. Could she just be playing it cool, any answers would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 I really would try and relax about this, there are many, many different reasons why somebody cannot text back straight away, if I get mobbed on Twitter I am tardy replying to texts, if I am at work I am, if I am out I am, If I am writing I am, etc, etc, it does not mean I think any less of the person I am replying too, it just means I am busy at that point in my life. Plus in this situation we could also be playing it cool as you rightly suggest. You said you sent this at lunchtime so isnt she likely to be at work, busy with her workday.
I know you really like her but dont fall into the trap of over-investing and scaring her off, try not to watch your phone and try and occupy your mind with other things. I know this is easier said than done but I really worry you will scare her off if you swamp her too much and you will end up swmaping her if you get too stressed over this. Good luck :)
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