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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm going to put this as simply as I can, and even if no one replies, I think I'm going to feel relieved that it is out there - I love this guy! He goes to my school and the dilemma is we are both at totally different social statuses, he is über popular, every one oozes off his presence, including I. He goes to incredible parties, drinks most weekends, goes and sees his friends most nights even smokes a little weed. Me, on the other hand am at the near enough bottom of the food chain, I have never ever been to a 'wild' party, drink not often, I'm not great with talking to people face to face so my friends don't often text me to go out and have not even had a puff of a cig and I quite frankly would love his lifestyle, but that's not why I love him, that's why I know he cannot love me. He is simply a work of art by the way he looks - totally magnificent, I know I'm not ugly but I wouldn't say I was anything special. I'm in most of his lessons and he seems to hold himself so perfectly to make me outstanded without failing every time I see him. He's incredibly fashionable too. He is currently single and has claimed 'he isn't looking or wanting a girlfriend' see I have a friend who is his friend, we smile in corridors but only properly talk outside of school, she knows I like him but not the sheer extent of it. It all started when my teacher picked me and him to do a science practical together, I found how funny, smart and charming he was. Ever since then I kept finding myself peeping over where he's sat, a couple of times he even looked back and I felt totally embarrassed. I jump at every moment he tells the teacher he hasn't got a pen and then has to borrow someone else's (I don't make it look obvious, I just like the thought of him having my pen). Soon enough I was doodling his name in my diary at home. Once I was waiting outside a classroom and he stood so next to me we were almost touching I almost fainted. We were once in the queue for lunch, I was at the end then him and his friend joined and he stood so our whole backs were touching and when I moved up, he did the same again. There was a meeting after school one night about going on a school holiday and I was sat with my mum in the hall like most people, but him and his friends being cool obviously didn't feel it to be necessary to bring theirs. His friends were sat on the front row with free seats next to them and when he came in, he ignored them, and he sat next to me!The summer holidays were hard without seeing him - painful. The first day back and every one was bunching up to see their results I found mine and stood way out the way and he walked straight into me simply said 'sorry' and walked off. I am so confused because he is so hard to read. My friend (who he is friends with) said if he were looking for someone I'd be tue sort of person he'd go for but with her being my friend I'm not sure she was saying that just to be nice to me. If you bared to read all of this, well done you and if you have an idea weather you think he is into me and I have a chance, or is it wishful thinking? Sorry for writing so much, I'm really not a people person and thank you x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 Anonymous nailed it!!!! Read her reply again and again... and you will see the wisdom in it.....
Good luck....
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 So you would "love his lifestyle"? "Incredible parties, drink most weekends, smoke weed"? And you think its "cool" for kids to not bring their moms' along to school meetings? Sorry but if these are your priorities for being "cool" then no comments.
Actually I cant relate to you in any way because this is just absurd. You might like this guy for who is is, that's different, and crushes are surprising. But let me give you an honest opinion. This guy is a wannabe and being a wannabe is NEVER cool.Its not cool to do any of the things which you've mentioned that he does.
Now to address your question. Does he like you? There is no way for anyone to know till you ask him yourself or he tells you first. But take off your rose coloured glasses and then look at him. You dont need to do drugs or drink or party to fit in. Maybe the reason you like him is because you envy him of his lifestyle and you think he must have something in him to pull that off. But that's not the case. Don't get swayed by glitz and glamour. Develop confidence in yourself. Its much cooler to be grounded.
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