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female
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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend (who will very shortly be my ex) is trying to wreck my life. recently he has been very controlling and jealous - for no reason, but now he's just doing evil things to get at me, sending facebook messages to my work colleagues and my friends and swearing at me, calling me the worst most hurtful things, but im worried that im going to get into trouble at work, ive deactivated my facebook account, but that doesnt stop him sending nasty malicious messages to my work collegues. i dont know how to make him stop, ive spent ages training for this job, and him of all people knows how hard its been, why would he try and wreck it? if he hates me so much, why doesnt he break up with me and leave me alone? i dont know how to make him stop.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Why give the guy a break when he isn't giving her one?
He's verbally abusing her, and harassing her workmates. You have NO idea how far this crazy person will go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): To the person who said to call the police,give the guy a break.its always difficult when you have just broke up with someone or about to.he will stop what he is doing eventually.believe me i know.i hounded my ex with texts and phone calls as i was so hurt and my self esteem was low but i gave up after about a week and didnt contact him at all.i think the police should only be called if he makes threats.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 September 2011):
Why isn't he your ex already?
I'm sorry but your possessive, controlling, psycho boyfriend isn't going to dump you, because you're his property.
You are the one who is going to have to dump him and proceed to call the police to get a No Contact order against him. I'd also have your colleagues print out the FB messages and save them for harassment charges if this continues.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 September 2011):
 Dump the moron. WHY are you waiting on HIM to make that choice?
Go talk to your boss & co-workers and explain what kind of wanker your ex is.
If he doesn't stop call the police.
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