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*helleya12
writes:hello ive been seen a fellow for a year now and everything was fine when i first met him he said he didnt want a relationship and i was seen him a weekends now hes saying i dont ever invite him out to my house and its not going any where and when i asked him was he still into me he said whats the next thing after like thats how he feels what does he mean thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Inform him, matter of factly, that 'it's not going anywhere' because he stated plainly that he did not want a relationship. All the things he's complaining about not having/doing are the sorts of things one has/does in a relationship. Then ask him if he's changed his mind and wants one now.
If he says no, then leave it at that and continue on as before (or walk away if that's what you both want). If he says he does, then decide what you want from a relationship and make it official.
To keep asking him is to pester him and it would make you look desperate. Never chase a man. Always let him chase you.
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reader, cheers  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 simply to know more about your family &life. He's checking on you,cautious person. Pls take first move to invite him to see your family. Clarify with him if you don't understand anything next time. Pls brush up communicate skills
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Tell him it seems there is some confusion on where this relationship is supposed to be going Remind him that he said he didn't want one in the beginning but that you are now wondering if he's changed his mind. Don't stop asking questions until you are both clear on the next step.
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