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writes:hi guys i recently asked for help on getting closer to this girl who i like. But i found out yesterday from my friend who i respect and i think hes a nice guy that he goes out with her and he even told me he loves her a lot! How am i supposed to feel? at first i felt betrayed but then i realised that i hadnt made a move soon enough so she found somebody else. After that i felt that at least shes with somebody who i know wont hurt her,if i had to pick a friend who i'd want to go out with her it would probably be him. I still like her and i dont want to get over her i just want to hope that they break up or stay just friends because i really want to be with her, but hes my friend and i dont want to steal her from him and i just dont know what to do!! Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Just be happy for them and try and move on. You missed your chance and you know that, so at least be pleased that 2 good people have found each other.
There are plenty of other girls out there, so leave her be and let her be happy with her new boyfriend. If you really care about her, rather than yourself, then you will let this go and just be happy for her.
Move on and forget about it - they are happy together so you cant do anything, so all you can do is accept your fate and find a new girl (and remember to act quicker next time!).
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Instead of hoping that they break up, be happy that they're happy. And if they happen to break up, maybe you'll have another opportunity. But don't try to do anything for a while after that.
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