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anonymous
writes: So i met this girl after a concert and we've had each other's numbers for over 3 weeks and after asking her 3 times to hang out, i finally give up. about a week later she texts me when i woke up before she even started her day. she get's drunk later and asks to hang out. when i got off work we hung out at my house (she was still tipsy) and we made out a few times but i didn't wanna grope her and scare her off on the first date. i just teased her and kissed her then teased her some more. all in all, the date went really well (even when she sobered up) even tho we just watched movies at my house. i really like her but should i wait for her to contact me about a second date? after all, she's rejected me over 3 times up until tonight? not a big deal......just want to avoid fucking this up if i can
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Making out can be a form of booty calling. The point was just that by calling you when she is strung she sends out a message that she doesn't take you seriously. It could have been a one time thing, and that she is genuine. But I'd be careful if I was you. You don't know what she determines as "sex", it could be she doesn't think blowjobs, handjobs, oral sex, anal sex, is sex at all. You never know.
Making out on the first date, and calling you while drunk, doesn't sound promising. You need a proper date without these elements before you can say that she is actually interested in you and not just looking for some fun and someone to fool around with.
Even if she's only had sex with one other person doesn't mean she wasn't calling you because she was horny. Just as a heads up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah but we both just got out of long term relationships and we actually had some good convo about one another. she wanted me to ask her questions and was asking me questions about each other's life. she was only drunk for 1 or 2 hours. the other 2 hours was sober. plus she said she's only had sex with 1 other person and that was her ex, so i dont take her ass the booty call type.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (19 July 2011):
This wasn't a date. She called you up for a booty call it sounds like, just for fun and nothing serious. She was drunk when she invited you over!
If you want to get to know her do it when she's sober and not eager to just kiss and be physical.
You should contact her again, if you're serious about her, because if you wait for her to contact you it'll be for just another booty call. Then if you get to go on a date with her make it a real date, with NO alcohol, and getting to actually know each other. You shouldn't make out either or be physical. If she's interested in you for boyfriend material she'll talk to you and get to know you, not stick her tongue down your throat.
How can you think she's the one for you? You barely know her?
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reader, paigeme142 +, writes (19 July 2011):
 I've been the girl on the other side of this and for me I was just looking for fun. I would text her and be like heyy that was fun but how about I take you out for our next date? It will show her your interested in more than just getting in her pants and you get to see her again:) If she hesitates remind her its free food! When you hangout with her be the guy you are and hopefully she will fall for you like you have fallen for her. Good luck!
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