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writes:A guy I've been talking to for a while asked me if I have ever had a proper bf. I said no and then he said I deserve a perfect man because I'm lovely and he'll be lucky when I do get one. I'm so confused what he means! He has been flirting with me and now he says he doesn't want to lead me on. What does he want--I'm getting really mixed signals!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): The things hes saying don't sound like the sort of things a teenager boy would normally come out with. How old is he and where did you meet him? If he is a boy you know personally. Then maybe he is rather mixed up because the way he is talking to you is most definitely designed to lead you on.
If he is someone you have met online, then be uber careful because again, you ARE being led on. Wanting to know if you have ever had a 'proper' boyfriend then acting coy with you, could be an intrigue designed to snare you, before he admits hes 40 and married to a woman who doesn't love him blah blah! Whoever he is, he sounds rather calculating and hes definitely trying to mess with your feelings. I wouldn't take any notice of anything he tells you. You sound like a smart young lady, so follow your instincts and use your noggin to decide what you think his agenda is because he definitely has one. Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): ignore the flirting part. if he has explicitly said 'I don't want to lead you on' and said things about you getting a boyfriend (who is not him) it means he is not interested. those are not the things boys say when they are interested in you. You can ask him out if you want to, or demand that he gives you a straight answer about what is going on, but I think it's pretty obvious he is just flirting, and doesn't want anything else
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