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writes:So i was just wondering if this guy likes me. A simple question, but i find it very hard to read people so i would just like a opinion.So i met this guy about a month ago and we always been kinda flirty with eachother. Then again, we both just flirty people so it works. Anyway 2 weeks ago i went out to the bar and he was texting me and said he would come and pick me up so he did and we went to his friends for a bit an then i tried to get him to come back to the bar with me but he doesnt really like it so he kept declining. I gave up and then he actually decided he would come for a bit and we danced and he looked like he had wanted to kiss me but i was kinda shy bout it. Kinda silly cuz i had a few things to drink. But i didnt wanna rush anything. Then just last monday we were hanging out at a fire the 2 of us cuz we decided to not invite anyone. It was fun, we talked and talked about just random things and life. Turns out hes a virgin. Kudus to him...says that he had his oppertunities but just didnt feel like it cuz the chicks didnt seem that great. So anyway we decided then that we were gonna put out the fire and go for a walk. We found a park and were playing tag and we kept wrestling an tickling eachother cuz we are both ticklish. Seems lame but it was rather cute. After awhile we were talking again and then he just stopped and kissed me..We then started making out an by that time the bugs came out and so we decided we go to my place and watch some tv. So thats what we did, we cuddled a bit and then he had to go cuz he worked so he gave me a hug and kissed me goodbye. Then we texted a few times during the week. Yesterday we went out to a lake and he wanted to go swimming so him and i left our friends and went out. He then threw me into the water and we started wrestling again and being all flirty. Had a mud fight and had like no care in the world. My friend then decided to ask him if he liked me and he said that was a highschool question and he didnt wanna answer it. Said whatever happens happens. That night a lot of us were drinking and he came and sat on my lap. We were all playing never have i ever for hours. Then today my friend and i went out an he came out again and him an i went swimming and the same thing. We dunked eachother and were pretty touchy with one another.I just wanna know what he may be feeling...is there something there or not. Help be greatly appreciated cuz im starting to like him and i find it pointless to like someone if they not into u cuz it just seems like a pointless thing to me.. thank u.
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reader, sarama  +, writes (18 July 2011):
see, i have seen a lot of these situations around me with a lot of friends of mine. what i strongly feel is that the guy is only flirting, he dont have any long term plans.Now is totally depends on you if u wanna keep this going or not, what i feel is that u have already started getting emotionally attached with him,now it will be dificult for u to break this relation if u continue this for few more months or such.what you can do is ask him straight does he love you. if he says yes ask him to declare you as his gf in front of everyone, every girl want her bf to be proud of her and propose her the way to make her feel special in front of everyone. then for a couple of days don't get physical,and don't allow him see what he does , is he only with you to get physical , or whether he genuinely loves you. try to get some information about him from his friends like his school buddy ,or college friends or where he works , if u wanna get serious about him you need to know about his character. you have to know more about him to be serious .and meanwhile don't make him indispensible for you,coz once you find out he was only flirting then you might get hurt at the end so don't make him indispensible .
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reader, Mrs. Melone  +, writes (18 July 2011):
Why try to read him? If you like him...tell him you like him. But beware he may just want to get you in bed.
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