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writes:I know were going to break up i can feel it. I don't know what to do, my heart feels like it's in tiny pieces. I feel hopless once again. I love her and this thing with her ex... I dont think she understands why it hurts me so much. I don't know what to do...
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reader, Princessmamma +, writes (1 December 2010):
Princessmamma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe still talks to her ex. They dated for six years and she doesnt want to give up the friendship. The little bits of time we spend apart that she doesnt talk to me makes me feel low bcuz whenever were together she talks to her ex. She tells me what her ex is up to and the things shes doing. If they can have these little talks why is it that sometimes when were apart she barely talks to me. Idk maybe im reading to much into it. This is a new relationship with no cheating so im trying not to think about it. But i feel like whenever we have those tiny arguments shes just gonna run back to her ex. Her ex treated her badly and i do everything i can to make her happy but sometimes i just feel like its not enough. Like tonight we had a little argument bcuz my 2 year old woke up it was about 330 am and we both have to be up early. She went on the couch cuz i live in a studio apartment. She said shes just gonna be there til i put her to sleep. I said well thats what u get for having a two year old and she said i wasnt bitching. And i said i know im just saying. She assumed that i was mad so it was awkward. We were sleeping naked but whenever we get in arguments it feels to awkward to have ure clothes off. I went pee got dressed n laid back in bed. She said thanks for telling me no after uve already peed and laid down. I continued to tell her sorry and that i wasnt mad. Im sitting up in bed now its probably 4 am but im just thinking of everything that happened and im gonna try and convince her to come to bed. I hate sleeping without her and i hate when shes mad. I love her i dont wanna fight it happens on occasion like a normal relationship but when it happens io hate it. I just asked her if she was coming to bed n she said not til im done on the phone cuz of the clicking. She said it must be pretty important. Well ya u guys r i love this site its great advice. Well ive explained a little please help i just wanna cry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): What's the ex thing? More details needed so we can help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): you need to elaborate...what's this thing about her ex and why do you feel you are going to break up?
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