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writes:So you know how everyone says, guys always say stuff they don't mean. Well I was wondering is that really true, cause now I'm starting to think sometimes when my boyfriend says cute stuff that maybe he doesn't mean it. I know this kinda sounds stupid but I've actually been thinking about this for the whole day lol. Any opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 I can't speak for him at all but I can tell you that when I say cute things I do mean them. This should show that there are guys out there who do mean it even though some do lie. If he says them at random times when there is no sexual favours involved relatively shortly after I would say that he means them just to make you smile and brighten up your day.
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reader, Deeyawn +, writes (29 November 2010):
Umm Depends On How/when He Says It, Sometimes Its True, Others Its To Gain!!!
I Say Stuff To My Girlfriend Thats Kind And Nice, For The Most Part Im Being Sweet, Others Times Im Just Saying It To Say It...
Ether Way The Intention Is Good And He Means All The Best ^-^
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reader, Nouvelle32 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Yes.. boys lie. Men lie too if they think they will be able to get into your panties... Beware! :) Don't give them any until you have known and been dating them for a long time... and by that, I mean months and months... and then use protection!! Or practice abstinence... but that's no fun... just be safe. Just know that I am much older and wiser and more experienced... boys/men lie all the time and yes they say cute things they don't mean.. Just make sure that you know what kind of person they are before you get involved. Don't fall for it... be strong. Don't give them any until you know their true intentions... if you don't give them any and they stick around, you know they are somewhat ok. You say this guy is your boyfriend so he's probably safe, but he also probably won't be your last boyfriend... so this advice is for the future too :)
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reader, kirra07 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Everyone says things they don't mean sometimes. I think guys get the reputation for doing it more because of the fact that the playboys will say anything to get a girl into bed. If you've been with your boyfriend for awhile and he treats you well and his actions say he love you, then I think you can trust that the cute things he says are real.
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