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writes:hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i dont wanna hold hands yet but if i tell him that he'll go to some other bimbo and leave me and that would break my heart. im not ready to make out or hold hands but he is. also our first kiss was very akward we bumped noses then he tells me it was romantic when it was a big joke we didnt even really kiss. ikissed him and he snapped it was akward when im with him i can talk nd its koo but when it comes to bf nd gf i can im nervous and akward o nd he likes my sister, what do i do/??
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Sounds like a player and he just wants sex. Are you a virgin, because guys love that. He likes your sister? Why is he getting involved with you? Maybe that's his way of getting closer to her.
I would get rid of him and tell my sister to stay away from him because he will hurt her and is obviously only after one thing.
He should understand that you aren't ready and if he doesn't then he isn't worth it. A guy should be willing to wait until you are comfortable and you're in love with him after three weeks?
How can you be in love with someone after only three weeks? You're still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship and are still getting to know each other.
Good luck. And let me know what happens okay?
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 How can you love him after 3 weeks?
I suggest you just dump him as he's obviously just after sex.. Especially if he's not willing to wait for you to be ready..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): This guy doesn't care about you, and he definitely doesn't respect you. Get out now, before you do something you will regret forever. Keep looking for a guy that will let you go at your own pace; they're out there.
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reader, VJay  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Just 3 weeks, and he's already asking for those oral things. You're not ready, don't do it. Too early for that. He's with you and he likes your sister. He sounded like a pretty 'dangerous' guy. Sorry, but maybe he just wanna get you in bed with him. Whatever his intentions are, just be careful and look after yourself when he's around.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (28 November 2010):
Psst he's wanting to get laid and you look pretty easy to him. You love him within three weeks. Go ahead close you eyes now describe him. Why didn't you tell us much about this wonderful guy; I can tell you didn't and it because you don't know him. You know he loves talking sex but what else. Do you feel like he's into you or is he into yOur vagina. I bet he try t ask for a threesome with two sisters.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Wow!, he's a bit forward isnt he. After reading what you wrote I would get the hell out of there. Tell your sister to keep away from him as well. It's blatently obvious to me that he is just after sex. 3 weeks is just a bit too early to be chucking oral sex at you in conversation.
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