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writes:I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, absolutely anything. We started hanging out again about a month ago, and we're really close. I live about 50 km. away from him and he comes up whenever I ask him to. It's a real hassle for him to get up here. He says he's looking for a commitment, and doesn't want another guy to come around a week later when I told him how I feel about him. There would be absolutely no other guys, I am in absolute love with him, and have been for many years. I haven't told him this much yet, and that I want a commitment too. He's coming over Monday. What should I say to him? And do you have some tips for opening up to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 You would have to tell him how you feel because with the distance between you there's only a small amount of sorting out you can do each time you meet. You'd have to let him know, then you would find out what he wants as well and you would have to take it from there your plan of action. If it's right you will find a way for it to work. Move closer to each other or spend more quality time together, holidays or alternate weekends at each others place. There's got to be some compromise for you.
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reader, VJay +, writes (28 November 2010):
 well, you two have known each other for quite a long time. I guess you two must feel comfortable with each other. comfortable enough to tell each other secrets and stuff, right? So maybe you should tell him how you feel. like tell him there's no other guys that you will fall for except him, you've liked him since...I dont know, since 7th grade. something like that. but don't rush things though. Maybe you two should relax and talk for a bit after meeting up, then after that, you go for it.
I hope this helps a little and I wish you a really good luck.
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reader, not fat  +, writes (28 November 2010):
simpley tell him!!!!!!!!!!
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