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*uvakindorstrange
writes:I am just looking for someone to reassure me that there is nothing wrong with me. A little about myself... I am a 26 year old male, attractive (at least I have been told so every now and then) healthy both physically and mentally, very active athletically speaking, college graduate, very considerate and kindhearted, down to earth and try to carry as little an ego as I can (I don't like to toot my own horn, I prefer to let my actions speak for themselves.) Well anyway, I am not very good with relationships, in fact I really haven't had a significant relationship in my entire life. I am very attracted to women and am not a virgin but I would consider my sex life to be non existent. I am not one of those guys needing to sleep with as many women as I can before I get married, in fact if I happen to meet my future wife tomorrow I would not have any reservations about spending the rest of my life with her. I'm just becoming more and more concerned with being single everyday that passes. I'll admit I'm certainly not putting myself out there as much as I can but I really dislike the idea of advertising myself online (i.e. facebook, dating sites) and I'm not a night person at all. I would characterize myself as old fashion hopeless romantic. Can someone please tell me that I am all right and not the only one in this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): You are totally normal.from your description of yourself you seem to be a pretty cool guy. And i can assure you that you are not alone!Just find ways of meeting new people by joining groups and organizations etc. you dont have to advertise yourself on social networks if you dont feel comfortable. just be yourself and eventually things will work out! also pray about it! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): You seem like a really genuine guy. You actually remind me of my best friend. I can't speak for you because I don't know you personally but as far as my friend is concerned, he's not able to find someone who is where he's at in his life right now. He wants to meet the right girl right away and invests a lot of himself in each relationship. Sometimes the girls feel pressured to be "the right girl." I know you said you are not interested in dating online but it's a great way to get some dating experience. You don't have to go there for relationships. I was very anti-online dating but I didn't date a lot when I was younger and I knew I needed to get a lot of dating no-nos out of the way before I could maintain a long relationship. This world is a lonely place and it never hurts to meet new friends. (P.S. The fact that you don't like to go out and do stuff at night may keep the younger girls away. You don't have to drink or go to bars, but if you're looking for a lively, youthful girl you have to meet her halfway)
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reader, morenasa +, writes (28 November 2010):
 There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Eventually when you least expect will find your future wife. I am just like you in a female version. I think nothing is wrong with out. I am basically the same I like to stay in and I know hopefully I'll meet my future husband too. More guys should be like when you go out on the streets from girl to girl you are just bound to catch a disease so is good that you don't. Good luck!
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