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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I don't know what exactly to think about my relationship. I'm absolutly in love with my boyfriend we have been together for 14 months happily. We both plan on getting married as soon as possiable. Then we plan to go college together to be psycologist and then have two kids. It's like we have it all planned out. I just am worried that it may be to good to be true. Like I know he loves like no matter what he is always open mind at there for me. He's never done anything to ever hurt me and has never cheated in my or even flirted with another girl. So I guess my question is am I to young to even think I'd be with him for the rest or my life?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (28 November 2010):
Life takes a lot of twists and turns and you never know where you will end up.
Enjoy today and today's happiness and don't stress too much about the future. If it happens, that's great. But if it doesn't, that's okay too.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (28 November 2010):
You're never too young to think that just remember that if it does ever end that life is not over. I know its terrible to think that but I would hate to see not knowing what to do if it ever did end.
To end on a more positive note though is that there is nothing stopping you two from carrying out your plan and it's great to see that your thinking about the future in more ways then just that you two will be together and magically things will work out. You have a plan for school and work, it's such a great thing.
I wish you two all the best.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (28 November 2010):
It's ok to plan but don't cling to the plan like a limpet, if something else comes along that seems better than the plan go for it. Enjoy every minute with your boyfriend and concentrate on the here and now rather than the distant future.
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