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writes:I have 2 questions:My GF is 40, never been in a committed relationship (just FWB) and wants to get married and have a family. I love her, but am getting on after a divorce and while I can see myself with her, just dont have the mindset to think about kids or marriage. She loves when I cum inside her, and I do it around her period, but am leery about doing it when she's ovulating. She gets frustrated when I don't but I told her I wanted to wait a bit... like a few months at least. I feel like she's tricking me in a way so she can have kids. Not realy a question so much as a predicament.The other question is, how hard is it for a 40 y.o. healthy woman to get pregnant? I have had kids, and know my stuff works, but she keeps saying how it is very difficult at her age, and how many of her friends are already going through menopause. Please dont bombard me with the fact that many women get pregnant into their 50's...I know that. Like what's the percentage?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (17 July 2010):
 If you're really concerned, use a condom. Otherwise you can't blame her for 'tricking' you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
You're really asking for it if you're having unprotected sex with her and you don't want kids. Depending on how healthy she is, the scientists like to say that there is between 1 10% chance and 25% chance that she will get pregnant at her age.
Not to put a fine point to it, but she's not tricking you. You're still having sex with her. Also, if you don't want kids and she does, you'd be kinder to let her go now. Time is running out for her, and you'll be on the end of a severe scolding if you don't have a child with her and she ends up not being able to have any.
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