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Would this bet make a girl mad?

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Question - (16 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so my question is, would a girl (I`m dating) be mad if she found out about a bet I made with my papa(Grandpa). The bet was that I could wait to have sex till I`m married. The winner gets $500, I feel like I should keep it a secret when I get into a relationship but secrets can really harm a relationship so could this bet make a girl get mad and want nothing to do with me. I was already planing on waiting till mariage and when my papa made this bet I figured it would be an easy $500. And if I win should I keep it to myself or share it with my wife.

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A female reader, cheerhotie10 United States +, writes (17 July 2010):

I dont believe shed get mad (if so shes the jealous type)it would show that your commited to a promise.if you tell her and she gets mad that means shes to grown and wants to have sex.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (17 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntDude, look around you, and all the problems sex have brought to people. Waiting til you are married is the best thing you can do.

I would tell the girl, and bet her too. Let's see if you both can wait until you are married.

It's like waiting for the ultimate gift...each other.

I wish I did, knowing how sex can be complicated as I know now.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2010):

I wouldn't mention this bet. A girl could say that you were betting on her, and not on the act of sex itself. Don't breathe a word about it. If you win, say it was a present. But don't make her think she's part of a bet.

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