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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I finally have a boyfriend! i haven't had one since 6th grade. The thing is when my boyfriend asked me out i immedeatly put " in a relationship" on facebook. (well not RIGHT away, like 5 hours later).Well the only people who commented were my guy friends. Their comments were like "WHO!" ":O!" "WHO are you being forced!" "want me to kick his a**" stuff like that. No girls commented. Then i go to school and all these guys come up to me saying "did you guys break up" " why do you have a bf" then everyone figured out, and all the guys became friends with him. (im 14 and i go to a charter school. k-8th so theres only like 16 guys in my 8th grade class) Anyways then all the 7th and 8th figured out the girls called me bad things, because he is 13 and i'm 14. Then the guys are like there are more fish in the sea. 'Ew he's ugly!' blah blah blah. Anyways i got really sad and i didn't know i wanted to stay with him. (then we hugged and everything was better) I came back to school and 3 guys come up to me and say, didn't u break up with your bfm 'why aren't you sad!' i said 'we didn't break up and why they cared?' and they said, 'because they're jealous' And rolled their eyes. so i'm wondering are the guys jealous of my boyfriend?
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (25 December 2010):
 lol sounds like typical middle school behavior...stirring up drama where there is none just for the heck of it :) Maybe a few are jealous but hey, they'll have to deal with it. You made your choice and your bf made his. There are plenty of fish left for your jealous guy friends lol. When they ask, be friendly but firm and tell them that you're life is not that interesting and will no longer discuss YOUR relationship with them. If they bring it up anyway, tell them "this topic is getting old" and move on to something else. If anything, your friends will lose interest after a while and stop these little games. Just be patient and firm :) I know it's hard but don't let them upset you, when you sit back and think about it, they are being a little silly, no?
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